To Move Or Not To Move...that Is Thee Question.

So, I am new to this whole internet group thing, but I'm hoping you all will be able to help me. My fiance, Bobby, is stationed in a different state than the one I live in. He got orders on Friday for Germany, so our wedding is being moved up from July to April. Right now I feel like I am being completely bombarded with tons of different emotions regarding what we should do after we get married. I don't really like the idea of living away from my soon-to-be-husband, but I don't know if it would be the smartest idea to leave my job before school gets out in June (I work at a school). He doesn't have a car right now and I don't think he will be able to live off base without one. Our options: move me out there (along with my car) or get a second car. I feel like I am looking for any excuse to move out to where he is. I'm trying to base my decisions on logic over emotion, but would that necessarily be the right thing to do at this point? If we are married and can live together, shouldn't we? Life decisions can be so difficult at times! I am thankful that I have the option to be with my airman, but I'm not sure if taking this opportunity would be the best for us in the long run. Any advice would be wonderful-I am completely torn as to what we should do!!

NikNik7 NikNik7
18-21, F
1 Response Mar 1, 2010

Ok...so I guess I answered my own question.