Advice Help Pleasee:(

Dont Know What To Do(army Girfriend)
Im happy with my soldier i want to make the big step already in becoming an Army wife i ask me and told him i want to be with him i want to be there for him more and more now i cant stand the distance anymore i want to be his wifey all i got from him is that he does not have the enough money to buy me a ring :( but i feel like his lying cause yes he has the money to waste so much on Sneakers going out and buying things for himself and he says when he gets everything ready he will marry me i ask him do we even going to have a future together it been 5yrs and half going to be 6yrs and im ready to be his wife already and i feel like his not ready or scared to be married all i want and im comminted to make the biggest decison of my life that i want him and i want to follow him everywhere but not as a girffriend as a wife already agg so pissed of and waiting for the day he marries me:(
Luvtennis89 Luvtennis89
22-25, F
1 Response Jan 14, 2013

You can try to explain to him you dont need a ring that cost a lot but something to shows that your have a future together and see what he say from there

I did i told him at least we can go get a $30-100 silving silver rings which there are simple and simple to keep clean i dont care about the price i just want to be with him closer cause the distamce is really killing me :( and right now im about to just scream my lungs out cause of other issues that im haing with him

Just do that sometime i have to do the same just,take a step back n take a breath and yell and cry sometime I even break things when I`m very overwhelmed but don`t feel as if you weak its just maybe you love hard and the only thing is you want him to meet you at the middle…because when me and my fiance` first got engaved I didn`t have a ring in a lot of the people we know though it was a joke because I didn`t have a ring but at the end of the day the ring is just for other peoples its not really for you its just what society excpect you to have but at the end of the day you have to be ok with it…also I know you don`t him to feel like you begging him to do it so maybe just back off for a few in see what happen because when I got my ring I so didn`t expect it. However it was way more better because I didn`t see it coming