I'm New To This Site, Would Appreciate Support.

i'm new to this site, and this group is basically why i came here. i couldn't keep my head straight anymore. i've already blogged about it, but i just now found this group. basically today i experienced yet another, but much more intense, overwhelming emotion from missing my boyfriend so much. it's gotten pretty bad now. i tried pushing it to the back of my head but it always backfires. i just really love and miss him and would appreciate support.

hdm1207 hdm1207
18-21, F
5 Responses Nov 25, 2009

this site will help you out a lot, you've definately come to the right place. all the girls are super nice and it's great to be able to talk to people who understand. i hope everythig is going okay, and if you ever need anything or someone to talk to just let me know!

Girl, you are in the right place! All these girls know what its like and it is definitely one of the tougher things that I've had to do. Its hard to go through the day knowing that he's so far away and having very little contact doesn't help either. All I can say is keep your head up, keep yourself busy and surround yourself with friends and family-they may not know exactly how you feel, but those are the people who are going to help you out no matter what. Oh-and write him lots and lots of letters..they help him just as much as they help you.<br />
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Good luck and if you ever need anything Im always here

its not abnormal hun... we all go thru it. my bf has been at bct since oct 13th n there isnt a day that goes by that i dont miss him with every beat of my heart. i love him so much that it makes my heart hurt that i miss him so bad. this isnt an easy journey 4 ne of us, but u have came 2 the rite place. i have found so much support in this site, these girls are all amazing. i go thru each day reminding myself that soon i will c my boo, and its gonna be the greatest thing ever. this makes ur love stronger, i promise u will get thru it... although it isnt easy just remember that he is a hero. if u need ne thing message me. Trust me.. i cry at least once a day... im actually on the verge of tears rite now, cause i was hoping he would get 2 call today bein its thanksgiving but no call as of yet. i just long to hear his voice...

Well to tell you the truth the emotions are just on and off its crazy how i can go from being so happy cause im seeing my soldier soon to being so sad cause its not soon enough to getting so upset cause ill have to say good bye once again but its completely normal and if you need to cry just cry i hate crying but lately ive just cried my eyes out. we are all here for you on this site. everyone understands and if you need to message anyone dont hesitate to do so. happy thanksgiving and stay strong!

I'm sure that really is hard to cope with so I hope you find some support from this site like you need. Maybe I can help you too even though I've not joined this particular group. There are ways to bide your time if in a constructive way so that your relationship gets stronger as well as yourself. Message me someday if you'd like. I'd love hearing from you.