Does This Happen To Anyone Else But Me?
My husband and i get to talk on a regulary basis he is stationed in kuwait. We seem to fight over rediculouse things. He does not like it if i tell him im going out with my friends it has to be all girls or he gets irritated, i can tell it in his voice. But i honelsty never do anything but work i get to go out about once a month. I feel like whatever i do he gets mad at me. For example he got mad at me for buying bottled water and said i should just drink the tap water? And i just think in my head why are we fighting about this? He just starts random fights about things that really dont matter and just things that i did when he was home. I had a couple people over one night and we were just watching movies drinking some beer nothing major because i had to work in the morning. They were gone by like midnight, but he called me while they were over and i had to leave the room bc we were fighting. I'm wondering if its just bc he wants me to not be doing anything like he is. I really dont know because when we are together we rarley fought. But ever sense he has left it has become almost a regulary thing. We sometimes go a week or two with no fighting. I am wondering if it's bc he feels like he has no control? He just gets mad at me for anything and its gotten so bad to where i feel guilty for doing anything but going home after work and waiting for him to call or skype me. If im not right there by the phone when he calls everyday he is livid most days. Some days he does not even care and he is his usual self? Then sometimes im just like wow who am i talking to right now and why am i being talked to like this. One day he was so rude to me for no reason i just broke down and said i dont need to be treated like this please stop i love you! He trys to turn things on me. Most of the time i just take it and cry. One time i was crying to him telling him how much i missed him and this is so hard ect. I normally try not to do that and just be stronge but i had a break down that day, and after i pored my feelings out he says "why are you talking like this? Did you cheat on me?" And i was like are you kidding me? I would never do that.I love him so so much. I just keep telling myself he will be home soon. This is not like him. We love each other. We can do this. I need some advice please???