so my husband has been gone for 3 weeks now. last Tuesday my grandfather went to the hospital for breathing problems and passed away 24 hours later. I'm mad at myself for not going to the hospital but everyone said it was not a big deal.(it was in NJ) he called me from the hospital and we talked for a few minutes and he sounded fine. my mother said one of the last things he said was how proud he was of me. it had turned out that there was a mass in his stomach (cancer) and it was so big that's why he was having trouble breathing, when they did a cat scan they said cancer had spread through his entire body. my grandmother had died last march, and he was distraught. they were together since they were teenagers and they were my definition of love. i hope that will be john and i. i mean they never argued, my grandfather always opened doors and the car door for her they were always so affectionate and loved each other unconditionally. since my Nana had passed away he didn't want to be here anymore, he stopped leaving the house, lost alot of weight. i wish they could have went together, but i know they are together now.

StacyDevitt StacyDevitt
22-25, F
Feb 11, 2009