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I Am An Empath

Education: Grounding And Shielding

By: kbetweens
Written on December 20th, 2012
By: kbetweens
Age: 26-30 , Female
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  • VithicaFalkson

    I've heard of this before. My shield is natural as well. I can actually project my shield around others close to me. But only when I feel spiritual danger. I had completely forgotten about grounding untill I read this. The only thing I want to learn more about is "turning it off" completely because it basically blocks me from the spiritual world. Thank you so much for posting this && reminding me about grounding!

    May 9
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  • Atrus20

    Perhaps I'm lucky, but I think my body naturally shields itself. In the past as a kid, I had a difficult time dealing with my abilities which I didn't understand at the time. I felt angry or sad for no reason at all and I was teased for being emotional. I think there was a point where my body started to shield itself on its own just to cope. Even today I'm not as strongly as affected as I once was, except strong emotions still hit me like a ton of bricks. I also can release energy very easily; I cant stay angry or sad for more than an hour. Hearing the problems others have with their empathic abilities, I wish that I could say how I do it... at least there are those like you that can help them.

    Mar 14
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    • kbetweens

      That's wonderful.talents in different places. :)

      Mar 14
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    • Atrus20

      The natural shielding is nice, but is there a way to direct my abilites, so i can sense energy from specific people without absorbing from everyone nearby? I ask because perhaps i could use my abilites to help others, but i can't bring down my shield without draining myself. Not too long ago, i tried to see if i could even bring down the shield, so i imagined it as a light surrounding me and thought of it fading a bit. I was perfectly awake and energized, but within 10 minutes of bringing it down, i was completely drained where i didn't even want to stand anymore. I brought it back up immediately but it took a couple of days to balance out where i drained more quickly and became emotional rather easily. It'd be nice to learn how to use my ability without killing myself in the process.

      Mar 15
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  • Kvothe11

    Hey would you help me with some more advanced stuff?

    Mar 13
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    • kbetweens

      Sure! Pm me with what's going on and we will go from there. :-)

      Mar 13
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    • 10Shadow

      As far as doing advanced stuff I do recommend you start with some basics first.

      Mar 13
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    • kbetweens

      He's my sidekick. He knows what he's talking about. But you and I will talk and go from there k?

      Mar 13
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    • 10Shadow

      Sidekick when did that duo ever come into existence? lol

      Mar 13
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    • kbetweens

      For all intensive purposes now since you decided to pipe in. :-)

      Mar 13
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    • 10Shadow

      Haha :D

      Mar 13
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  • onica

    Thank you for sharing your light.

    Jan 23
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  • Kvothe11

    I do this often now and everytime It gets easier. Thank you for this

    Jan 15
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  • Jordjafyre

    Kbetweens, Thank You so much. Ive been trying to sheild myself for a while and it helps to know im on the right track on how to go about it.

    Jan 13
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    • kbetweens

      You're so welcome. :) everyone has their own way of doing it. But this is how I do it and it works for me. PM me if you need anything at all. I'll help where I can.

      Jan 13
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    • kbetweens

      Wonderful! I'm glad this helped you. :) feel free to share anything more you have to add. After all, we aren't alone in this!

      Jan 14
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  • StormySeasApproaching

    There are three other important things I have learned. You must accept yourself as you are. What happens to many of us as empaths is that we develop a second entity within ourselves that is the reverse polarity of our emotional make up. We tend to run to this entity when we feel overwhelmed and allow it to run things for us a while. Sooner or later this second entity, which is nothing more than an reverse alignment of our emotional make ups seeks to dominate. So you must accept yourself as you are so that you are able to learn to cope as yourself.

    2. All empaths have a center. A natural affect in earth that opens a door for release. For me its has always been trees. You must learn your center affect and gravitate to it when you begin to feel over whelmed. All things in nature were created to comfort our senses. Certain one's appeal to each of us differently.

    3. Learn to speak to your own emotions. Its important to get a great idea how our emotional balance is affected by people around us. this way you can learn which emotional reactions and connections are most affective in any empathic encounter. Many times these encounters bombard us before we are ready. I have learned to seek these encounters out so that I am prepared in advance.

    Jan 11
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    • kbetweens

      I honestly hadn't thought about those things. But it makes total sense. As I was reading it all clicked.

      Thank you so much for sharing. It's always nice to learn something new.

      Jan 11
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    • Jordjafyre

      That makes sooo much sense!!!! I am so glad i found this site. It helps to have a place to learn about my gifts and to hear others views! this message string alone has helped open my eyes to quite a bit!! Thank you

      Jan 14
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  • CrystalWaters32

    Thank you so so much. I knew there was a way to deal with this better. I have been getting lost in people and retreating to repair myself. I am grateful there are others spreading light, which helps people like me. Thank you. xoxo.

    Dec 30, 2012
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  • fairiewings

    Hi Stacy, Thank you SO MUCH for your advice :) looking forward to trying this & have tried the breathing which has already helped ! Have been one who quite often has been physically ill due to absorbing emotions, etc. from others very very often to the point of not functioning at times. I appreciate you very much! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    Dec 26, 2012
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    • kbetweens

      You are so welcome! :) I know how hard it is to be like us. Why not spread my experience of making it easier! I want you functioning and well. And I appreciate you as well.

      Dec 26, 2012
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  • Kvothe11

    :)

    Dec 23, 2012
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  • kbetweens

    @kvothe11: as you practice your experience will increase. You are taking steps to better yourself. :) it's wonderful! Be proud of yourself.

    Dec 23, 2012
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  • Kvothe11

    I will try this and get back to you, I'm super inexperienced so the shielding I have tried seems pathetic compared to this lol

    Dec 23, 2012
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  • Blacksheep4

    Ahhh I've actually read this somewhere before! Oh nice! I know what to do =)

    Dec 21, 2012
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  • Nokukhanye

    I ground myself, if I'm particularly stressed or freaked, I take my shoes off and earth myself. I sometimes place my hands on the earth as well or lie on it. I find it balances me and makes me calmer. I suppose scientifically it makes sense, we are electrical dynamos and if we don't discharge or receive energy and complete the circuit, it makes us sick. As far as protection goes I'll try it, it hasn't protected me thus far! :)

    Dec 20, 2012
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  • SevenExPro

    This is great! What I usually read confuses me to no end. Thank you!

    Dec 20, 2012
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  • redneony

    Thank you.

    Dec 20, 2012
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