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I Am An Empath

What Is An Empath.- Definition

By: Mystic44
Written on September 20th, 2007
By: Mystic44
Age: 41-45 , Female
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  • April71

    That is me! I have no trouble connecting and understanding people. I am not professional but I can understand how everyone feels. I thank God for this talent coz as a single parent I applied it in my daily life and to my daughters life. Be compassionate and live wisely. Thank you for sharing!!

    May 9
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  • clgsassy

    OMG...
    I am one...
    so many characteristics that made me feel "defective"
    "hot mess" and other descriptions...
    are me!
    How am I 57, a counselor, and
    have never identified empathic....
    can't thank you enough...
    joyinthejourney, clg

    Apr 11
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  • knightwhispers

    Yes; I think what you say here does help. I would say that the strongest of Empaths would not feel the need to declare nor 'self-label' themselves to be anything other than caring people; even this they do quietly as they tread and the Empathist has no corner to defend. But it should be said that not everyone who might consider themselves to be Empathists are either the most sincere nor the most passive of people either.

    Interesting article; thanks for the read :)

    ~F~

    Apr 10
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  • HyperSensei

    Quote
    Oftentimes, the need to block out others is
    great so that the energy balance is restored.

    I have had this gift for the past year or so. Not even my Family's stresses bring me down. It may sound bad but I believe this has helped keep me sane!

    Apr 4
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  • redheadsrule

    Nice post , miss you.

    Mar 14
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  • CCPhilosophy

    All i can say is WOW! This is me almost perfectly...i literally cry my eyes out just watching someone be hurt in movies or in real life. i CANNOT WATCH IT. i LOVEEEEEE children to the core of my soul and animals are second. I dont really have any friends lol no one understands me.. I need to keep this , THANK YOU!!

    Mar 12
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  • yolo19

    This was very helpful, thank you for posting.

    Mar 2
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  • FreeTheSky

    This is an incredible definition! :D Thank you so much for sharing!!

    Feb 24
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  • AdeptusObscurus

    I nearly match all these, except the last part >.>

    Alot of these seem a bit... common, not sure if it's me or...

    Feb 23
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  • laughingsoul

    Wow! I shall save this and read it again, thank you for sharing.

    Feb 23
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  • Kvothe11

    I love reading things like this and relating to much. All people seem to be drawn to me especially children and animals. I make friends with every body. Although I can only think of 2friends I really trust. I'm far to the expressive and outgoing side of the spectrum because I love social interaction. About twice a week I will be completely withdrawn, have anxiety for no reason it would seem and I really just don't want to be around anyone. I found when I feel like this it helps a lot to meditate, it's like instant relief :)

    Feb 18
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  • destry

    Animals and children seem drawn to me, but not adults. I am on the withdrawn and reclusive end of the spectrum.
    I am extremely sensitive to people's "energies". To the point it gets overwhelming, and I need to escape.

    Feb 14
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  • Looking4path

    I am 57 and in the last two years had a name to what I have felt all my life. My family called me overly sensitive from child hood, I have been medicated most of my life for crying, and shattering sadness, just hate large family or close friends gatherings the emotion overwhelming. Worked in retail management all my life and didn't know why I would be mentally exhausted all the time or could feel the anger, jealousy they hit me like a rock and weight me down.I would try to talk to family or spouse how I just knew what people felt or were thinking and finally stopped talking about it because they thought I was crazy. I can also pick up future events if its going to be tragic in visions about five feet in front of me or dreams. Geeze it all makes since now, what a waste of all those years. I get a defying ringing in my ears that can make my throat and ears itch and close up. People gravitate towards me some become more happy and love being around me others become hostile and aggressive trying to prove something or control me, it's almost feels like if they can control me they can be more powerful.

    Feb 3
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  • julienstaheli

    Most of this is true, especially about children and animals. I don't think empaths, like myself, are exempt from feeling jealous or envy now and again, but it does seem to pass quicker than usual. And, people don't really gravitate towards me, in fact it's pretty much the opposite. Read my take on people here: http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-An-Empath/2812174

    Dec 21, 2012
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    • julienstaheli

      Ps. I think people don't gravitate towards me because I now keep people at arms length, probably because of the bad experiences I've had with people in the past.

      Dec 21, 2012
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  • Moon1015

    It's me.

    Dec 18, 2012
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  • Sample46

    It's nice to feel like I am not alone. Sometimes I need to be away from everyone because it hurts so badly. I know when strangers are sad, mad or happy. My college life was miserable because I couldn't stop people from coming to me with everything and anything. It has affected me so much that it has worsened my asthma symptoms. I feel completely alone and weird. I can jump into people's dreams sometimes

    Dec 17, 2012
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  • ancoolu

    I love this description, it defines me perfectly! Thank you so much for supplying this information :)

    Dec 1, 2012
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  • tazia

    What a beautiful description. Thank you!!!

    Nov 26, 2012
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  • fairiewings

    Thank you for helping me understand this gift. I dont like to talk about myself at all or gather any attention, good or bad but this & other postings are helping me tremendously. I am sometimes so compassionate with every animal, human & even plants & insects that I thought I was a freak of nature but I'm starting to understand myself after 48 years. I SO appreciate your definition & feel it's spot on to my experiences. I hurt very often in my heart for others & have been told to " toughen up", get a grip & stop being such a sap/sissy but I can't & don't want to change, just want to understand this beautiful, painful gift & learn how to manage it & how to block it when I need to..what a journey.... Thank you!

    Nov 19, 2012
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  • sandibee

    Two down falls in this description for me, A-I don't always "retreat" when I should, when the iron is hot I strike and defend, B- not all people are this way, commom misconception for me. Sandi <3

    Nov 19, 2012
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  • arhythmdancing

    I see myself quite vividly in that definition. I had been accused of being an overly sensitive person by close family members and friends for the majority of my life. I was often baffled by this because I am also the person that people in my family or circle come to when they need someone to talk to. Someone who makes them feel like they are going to be heard. Would'nt that make me a rock as well? It is confusing to me that I could be both ultra sensitive and as strong as a rock. So, I am glad to see that I am not alone in my personality type or character traits.

    Nov 3, 2012
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  • Quinn1313

    Woah that described me almost perfectly, although i like do like violence on tv as long as it is men battling or an evil woman.

    Oct 17, 2012
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  • TheHoodooKing

    Holly **** u just described me... But only violence twords animals women and children messes with me

    Oct 13, 2012
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    • iamsams

      Why women, children, and animals? What's your reasoning, voodoo?

      Nov 9, 2012
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    • TheHoodooKing

      Children are defensless dont know why but i idolize women (not gay or transgender or anything like that) and i like animals, i just dont give a **** about guys for some reason mabey cause all the dudes i know are dicks tords girls

      Nov 11, 2012
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  • CloudyNightWolf

    I am an empath, I have really strong senses for peoples emotions and some times what they feel.

    Oct 13, 2012
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  • Goldpaw

    I'm ONLY an Empath for the plants and trees.

    Oct 13, 2012
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  • ACUcowboy

    Very accurate description, would you mind me sending others to look at this if they need explaining? (new friends, close people who are new to me telling them what i am etc) One flaw though, Im an empath yer the violence/agression thing dont fit me.. Im very hot tempered, and violence dont bother me, unless it is a wicked, unjust, er evil act.

    Sep 25, 2012
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  • lvnghrt

    i think I may be one

    Sep 20, 2012
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  • OutFade

    I have found a way to block other energy out that you don't want to feel. I have known I was different for a long time I just didn't know what to call it. I am sure this is different for everyone but always keep energies in memory. It will take time and PRACTICE but once you get it down it works great. Only side effect of this is well it is taxing... What I mean is when you pick up on others its taxes you later but if you dont want to feel that pain that emotion remember the others. its less taxing then having to pick up on everything and you can shut out what you dont want

    Aug 11, 2012
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  • Jannaplays

    This describes me exactly. Being an empath made me miserable, but a year and a half ago I started meditating for an hour a day, and it has changed my life. Other people's emotions don't tip me over anymore, and I know whatever feelings I do experience from others, I can release through meditation.

    I am less afraid to go out in the world. I am also opening up to just how sensitive I really am, and using that to become more compassionate. I think I shut down a lot of compassion from being so vulnerable to other people's feelings - I just wanted the unwanted feelings to stop, and I resented being forced to feel other people's pain and sorrow. Now I have tools to deal with that, and I'm not afraid.

    If you are an empath, consider meditation. It might change your life.

    May 25, 2012
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    • iamsams

      An hour! While I'm very nearly convinced of the positive attributes of meditation, I can't seem to last for more than ten minutes before my thoughts start racing and I need to break away into reality again. An hour. Wow. :-)

      Nov 9, 2012
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  • CapriciousConsciousness

    wow this actually explains a lot to me. I've always wondered why people gravitate towards me.

    Apr 28, 2012
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