Wife No Longer Loves Me.

this is about the hardest week I can imagine. My wife told me she can never love me the way I need her to again. We have agreed to be friends and live together as friends for the kids. next week is our 13th Anniversary and we will not celebrate. It is very hard for me to live in the house and not treat her like she is my lover and best friend. I don't know how to handle this. She says she has no interest in finding anyone right now but you can not know when that happens. We are very close to our best friends and I am very worried about the ending of the family we have formed with them, I will be the one who walks away from the 4 of us. It will be them and my wives new interest and it is breaking my heart just thinking about it. I can handle my marriage because we have been having problems for years and have not been close, but my best friends who I share everything with spend every weekend with I am distraught over this and have no idea what I am going to do. I just have no place to turn right now. I can 't think straight. I do love her very much and understand.
I have been taking a drug called topamax for about 6 months now and it has made me someone I am not. Emotional, depressed, angry, I forget things simple things, and she has been fed up with it. Topamax has ruined my life. Even with my friends they kind of stay clear of me most days now. I am now starting to get off of this drug. I told my doctor that I can no longer take it. I have nobody to blame but myself and topamax, I should have gotten off earlier.
My life is in a downward spiral.
Detroitguy23 Detroitguy23
36-40, M
2 Responses Sep 21, 2012

Your marriage sounds exactly like ours!! We have been married for 32yrs. She told me 3 yrs ago. That she needs to be free. Not have to answer to anyone! Well now we live together but in seperate rooms. She goes out 2-3 times a week. If you want to talk more. I would be happy to share more

1st all - kidz come first. find a way, and get your soon to be ex to agree for a way for you to still be a part of the kidz everyday lives.

theres is alife after marriage. if it includes another woman, it might, it might not be tomorrow. but give yourself time.