Not So Perfect

I never wanted to be totally perfect!

I hate to compete with people who are on a high horse.

I use to be the perfect girlfriend and then I cheated. I didn't do it to hurt him it just happened. I was sorry but I just can't be perfect all the time.

He understands that and he forgave me. He is awesome for understanding that everyone is imperfect in some way, shape, or form.

I use to have all A's and B's in school then I got to the end of highschool and the beginning of college and then my grades starting to fall.

Now I struggle to get C's in classes. Life is hard and being Imperfect is helpful to not stress yourself out too much.

 

Nika32Nika Nika32Nika
18-21, F
2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

You know what Ladies, I don't understand why you are judging yourselves. NO ONE is perfect, male or female!! If they think they are, they are only kidding themselves. How can you enjoy life when you are trying to be something you are not????<br />
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If someone can't accept you for who you are then they don't deserve you and you don't deserve to waste your time on them. This is not being said in a negative way. It is being said in a positive way, so you realize that you need to be happy with yourselves as people.<br />
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Who wants to be perfect???? You spend all your time working on that false dream, when you could be taking your time making your realistic dreams come true.<br />
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I wasted too many years(40+) of my life trying to be what other people wanted me to me. No more!! Take me for who I am today and if you don't like that person, well that is just too bad for you! Today I am a much happier person as a result. I get up and just have to put clothes on, not a whole persona. Relax and try it. I'm sure your lives will show a positive change and you will have more energy, because you are not wasting any energy on a hopeless ideal of who you think others want you to be.<br />
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Let me know how things work out. I'm curious.

You're totally right!<br />
No-one is perfect. everyone makes mistakes!<br />
all we can do is learn from them!<br />
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I always dream of being the perfect girlfriend with perfect looks etc. but It's never going to happen.