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Go to Your Grave With Shame

A personal story in the experience: I Am An ******, and 'kiddie ****" Ind Survivor
m y father in law molested his daughter this was

made light of becalse it was only o o ral se x

go to your grave father in law with shame for what you did

you took your childs yought and trust you took something that

she can never regain ever . go to your grave with shame. 1 year ago

we buirrred you and you just count tell your daughter

how sorry you were , no wonder when we went to the furnal

my sister in law was acting inaproply i commented to my husband

how sis was acting like she was dad's husband how strange. now after a

year i have the answers why she acted like she did its called acting out a love /hate

for her father it all makes sents wow . and thats why i just cant have a deep

relationship with my mother in law becalse she lied to me about him

molestion her daugher and i let my daughter stay all night

there at her house nothing bothers me more for a lie like that

i have promised god i would watch out for my daughter at all cost

no one would do to her what was done to me ever. i just cant wrap

my brain around a woman staying with a man like that

i just couldnt stay with a man like that . i dont

understand it why do they stay ive know mothers that know what thier

husband does to the kids i get the feeling like

well atleast he didnt beat me . if you read this and you have

stayd with a molseter and you know it enlighten me

i need to know why would any one stay . coment on this

what do you think about my blog do you think iam a hard case

b itch? do you think iam a good mom what? talk to me thanks.

the sad part of my sister in laws her own mother tells her just get

over the passed its the passed. and you know with people

not willing to help her daughter heal up

its so sad. you know if that was my grown daughter hurting so bad

becalse of a cold mother all she wanted was to be held like a child

and be told mommies here i will do my best to make every  thing better

but her mother didnt nore mine but ive forgiven my

mother . its so sad my sister in law is so lost with hurt,i think

thats why she runns to the pennicoastal people they give her support

its so sad

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Posted Jul 8th, 2008 at 12:13AM
I haven't been in that situation, but I've known women who have been. While a few are simply trapped by inertia ("It's too difficult to leave."), most are trapped economically ("How will I support myself and my kids?") or through fear of him ("He says if I leave him, he'll track me down and kill me, or the kids.") Sometimes its physically very difficult to leave. We as a society need to change men's thinking, let all men know that this is simply unacceptable.
     
Posted Jul 8th, 2008 at 6:35PM
I can easily say that I would not stay because my life is so far removed from such a thing. I imagine some people become paralyzed by fear, the unknown and the inability to support their children financially on their own. It's sad that there are not enough resources for women and children at risk so that they can safely remove themselves from the situation. My heart hurts for what happened to you and your sister-in-law.
     
Posted Aug 22nd, 2008 at 10:06PM
Bless you, Lunnas. I hope your family finds peace. I hope your sister in law can find rest for her soul.
     
Posted Oct 13th, 2009 at 10:07PM
I am so sorry to hear about the horrible thing that happened to you and about the way your family told you such lies.
Unfortunately your story is all too common.
I hope that you can find peace and healing and learn to love yourself. You deserve love and peace.
     
Posted Oct 14th, 2009 at 12:29AM
I have found peace I have eccpted what i cant change
     
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