Me Too, Just Im Still Putting Up With Idiot Family..

 What can I say.. I am so pissed off with the people who call themselves family.. with the world and everything.. Why does nothing ever get thru?  I came from probably one of the worst dysfunctional families ever.. but im guessing there will be worse.. if nothing else.. i couldnt have been landed with the worst family ever in my situation....


 


I was sexually abused for more than 12-13 yrs by my father.. from the age of 6-7.. i am now 38.. (still ******* me off),, i have 2 brothers a sister and a mum.. to keep it short.. my sister is getting married this yr and it has opened a can of worms.. one of my brothers (who i dont spk to) is in a father/son relationship with our dad who abused me.. i hate his guts but rest of family still have a relationship with him.. (my brother) what can i say!!!! anyway.. my sister asked me to b a bridesmaid? the dilemma? my brother was going to be there.. I voiced my feelings.. "i dont want to share the same air with him".. this caused a big uproar.. nasty words exchanged (by text) before i know it i have become the family outcast.. my sister and my mother no longer spk to me..  my mum has never understood y i was the age i was wen the abuse was still going on... i guess she really shouldnt have said " your sister wouldnt have let it happen" "she is more strongwilled than u".. do i need to say any more? this is a cut version... but a rough idea of what has happened... is it me?  I feel really let down and stung by this.. my mum was never really a good mum.. but a mum on paper anyway.. 


anybody have similar issues?Im still

jancro34 jancro34
36-40, F
10 Responses Mar 11, 2010

To) jancro34 If Anybody has committed Offences against you, I would not blame you if you told the police. 'Family' or not - they are Very understanding over these things.................<br />
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many reason for problem spelling and grammer but still sounds like peple who have to have it there way without asking why some onemay have a problem with stuff<br />
mine is a bullet boucde around in side my head many years ago

I'm not the 'grammar police', but some accounts I have to read em 25 times AND I STILL CANT UNDERSTAND 'EM.................. :)<br />
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grmmer police are on the lose so i removed my comments<br />
best reveage is to just walk away

Please read and re-read your your comments folks. I cant understand what your saying, folks because of All your spelling mistakes etc etc...................................<br />
Live as Best you can.<br />
If somebody dosn't like you it'll '**** em off'.................................. <br />
THATS HOW YOU GET YOUR REVENGE................................ :)<br />
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I have suffered Lots of DIFFERENT kinds OF abuse/lies/bullshit/ theft etc etc but everyday I 'consume' the best kinds of food/Listen to the best kinds of music/'go out for a Social drink/stay in the best accomodation THAT I POSSIBLY CAN......................... :)<br />
iF EVER aNYBODY'S HURT YOU no matter in what way,<br />
live as long and in the Best way that you possibly can.................................... :)<br />
WHY ?<br />
- Cos it'll '**** em off''...................................... :)<br />
+ Tell the Police and Anybody "Official" who'll listen to you............... <br />
DONT LET THE BASTARDS GET AWAY WITH IT.......................... :)<br />
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I sometimes cant believe just how cruel some people can be.. its so much worse when its a parent.. I feel for you.. in a way we are similar.. i was isolated in a sense and I didn't get to do what other kids took for granted.. i always felt different, stood apart from everyone around me and I still do.. I think people will see you for who you are and will get to know you.. your thoughtfulness and personality will shine through.. you have a chance to get back what was taken away.<br />
Take care.

well similar in some ways but nothing as bad as being repeatedly raped. I'm glad he did go to prison and I hope he was raped at least once.<br />
My father was the problem my mother and sister and I were extremely close because we were kept isolated the whole time out in the desert in travel trailers where we could not be around other kids. Going to high school, going to the prom ,all that is so foreign to me I can't imagine what it would be like. The normal enculturation that others got from society, I missed, and was differently enculturated now I will always be like a foreigner an outsider no matter how much exposure I get to society it will always show.

Hi, I think abuse is abuse no matter what or how long.. it causes so much damage. My father served almost 3 years in prison is all... that pissed me off.. burglars get longer than that.. as we know society is not fair and the justice system stinks. You sound like u have had similar experiences to me regarding so called family members... thank you for your response, i appreciate u talking to me.<br />
take care

I was abused as a child to but not this severely it was emotional abuse like death threats etc. Why your father is not rotting in prison playing ***** to some gang banger I don't know. If our society was fair he would be. The whole family thing doesn't mean much to me ,I've seen it go very wrong to many times.