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My Dream.............

Yes of course I am an Indian and I am proud to be an Indian.I am a tomboy and i have a girl friend.she is not only a gf for me..she is everything to me..a friend,a mom,a wife.she is everything to me... our relationship is going smoothly for the past 3 years..and now also..i completed my graduation in c.s. Now i am facing a big problem.my family and her parents never know that our relation is not just a friendship.if my parents know what i am they may attempt to suicide,if her parents know about our relationship they will kill us..her family is a typical orthodox family and now her family is seeking good proposals to her...i am not employed and do not know what to do...if she comes with me what will i do.. i do not know how to face this situation..........
RickyRyan123 RickyRyan123 18-21 4 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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I dont know what to comment..but I can understand ur feeling... get job and move from here

tricky situation for you 1) try to get a job based on your education 2) you are too young for a marriage be cool otherwise tension may spoil your situation...only thing that you can do is to enjoy life with you gf and ask her to postpone her marriage...

thank uuu for ur post,.. :) surely i will ask.. :)

hmmm.... i dont know what to comment.. i wished that i could have helped you... hmmm... tough situation... Try getting a job...

Thank uu for your post..yeah i am trying for that...

in a country like ours ,i wonder if theres any future thr in ur relationship........thr r only things u can do if her family is liberal to let her choose d guy,she can possibly go for moc.or both of u find a way to settle abroad (even then ull have to hurt ur parents)and i wonder wat ur age is ,from wat i can see ur too young !1!all the very best

first of all thank u for ur replay,,, i am 21 years old and she is too.i also think about migration.but if i have no jobs ..how can i ....i dont know...

but she never marry any other person..if i tell her to marry any other person she may attempt to suicide.....

i just dont understand how easiy u used this word suicide......just shows ur immatuarity i guess.......u both r very young still a good 4 or 5 years to go before ur parents and relatives make ur life hell to get married.........u both holda degree .....matter of time before u get ajob and also see if u can study further to increase the chances of getting a better job.......ur educated stop worrying about how things r going to get done and start doing it.....make things happen......

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