I Want To Ask...

I want to ask other INFJ's if any of you currently are in a dreamy-lovey, near perfect relationship. I used to love someone and he still occupies a space in my heart, I made a painful decision and stuck with it, married again and again, but I've never been able to love again....until some time ago I fell in love with someone much younger and from my new family also. It is terribly painful, I don't have solid conformation but all tells me that he feels the same way. I think I'm hopeless..........I have visions and intuitions,,,,,,
lovedreamlive lovedreamlive
36-40, F
2 Responses May 12, 2012

No. I don't know how to love properly. no matter how much I feel I'm giving myself to someone else, I'm always holding something back. It's just the way I am. Maybe it's because the right person has just never come along, but I suspect it's more than that. I don't think I could ever give all of myself to anyone.

I don't think I have ever been in a relationship that has been anywhere close to perfect. Mine always flame out very quickly.