LonelinessI am an INFJ. I am lonely,too. I want to be alone most of the timr since I am more comfortable alone. When I am so lonely I can not stand it I get with others but feel awkward and out of place. I am okay with just one person at a time, if I know them. I am running out of people. When I am hurt or offended by someone I stay away from them. I am estranged from my brothers and sisters. I feel alone even when I am with a close friend, of which I have three. I can't get it. I can't just roll with the fow. I get stuck thinking, ruminating on a phrase or comment someone made. What did they mean by that? I feel like a loser. My IQ is in the 90th percentile. I don't fit in this world. I am an INFJ. Only 3% of humans are INFJ's. I don't fit in anywhere.
I have been married three time. I can't stand the intense togetherness and accounting for time, thoughts, motives. I am drowned by marriage, yet I am alone. I am lonely. I do not fit in.