Over 50 Male VirginI suppose there may be a rare few others like me. A lifetime of belief, convictions, circumstances, events mixed with a little bit of shyness and inhibition and now I'm over 50 and never had sex. At this point in life I no longer have any expectations that that's going to happen and have turned my attention from wishing for it to just going on living life as I am. If I die a virgin, so be it. I'm not unhappy nor do I dwell on wishing for something that's never going to be. There are other things in life to enjoy and participate in.
I guess I'm sort of fixed on remaining as I am. I recently went out to eat with some folks. There was a single woman there around my age. Actually, she was sort of attractive. It was clear she was wanting to get to know me. I liked her socially and went on a date. But I made it clear that I liked her socially, but I didn't see marriage or a sexual relationship in my future. She sort of understood but we parted company. That was probably my last chance for a sexual relationship. I just couldn't see myself changing.
While I'm not ashamed of my virginity, my acquaintances who find out usually don't believe me, think something's wrong or dwell on trying to fix me up with somebody. So, this isn't something I exactly advertise with people I meet.
truevirgin 51-55, M 14 Responses 5 May 14, 2011