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I Am Androgynous

I am Androgynous. I do not see myself as either Masculine or Feminine. I have a girly side I like to act out, but I have my man moments *crushes beer can*. I know that I am biologically male, and even though I would love to know what it feels to be female, if I had to choose, I'd probably remain male. If it were possible to become a hermaphrodite, I probably would consider that option, but I wouldn't jump to it right off the bat. I know that I am very understanding of both females and males, and I am highly empathetic towards both genders.

As being bisexual, I know that I can be attracted to both genders. Strangely enough though. When I am with a female, I prefer being the dominant male, but when I am with a man I prefer to be a submissive female. So strangely enough, in relationships, I will assume a role.

I might come back to this story and update my feelings on this. But it is late, and I need some sleep.
catboydale catboydale 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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Great description of how you feel. I am so with you on the empathy part and the dominant to female, submissive to male role-taking

I was confused by your icon, cuz I had thought you were a girl. hehe, I didn't even see the age and gender. X_X

I think because of society, lots of men feel they naturally protect women or feel dominate. I sometimes hold the door open for women or even talk more politely without even knowing it.

Androgony is okay and do be yourself!

Seems very flexible to me - probably raises your opportunity basis by quite a few points.

how much of your femme side have you fully explored?

I've tried cross dressing. It's okay, I love all the clothes that females wear, but I just don't have the body for the outfits. If we are talking about my adult baby side, then yes, I've explored my sissy side as I do tend to like the female toys better than the male toys. I have a ton of stuffed animals, and pony stuff.

if you google baby dresses for adults you could extend your sissy wardrobe.

I know, but it's super expensive. lol. I have some sissy clothes, but most of my baby clothes are animal pajamas and sleepers. hahaha. I'd really love to find a nice playdress but not everyone shares my idea of an adult baby dress. Don't get me wrong, I love the frills from time to time, but I don't want a dress that looks like something out of a Disney princess movie. Something like an overall dress or something cute like that. I wrote some stories about my clothes a little while ago lol.