With My FriendI'm so angry at a friend right now.
We started chatting when she got online and everything started well.
Everything good until now.
Then she starts saying how emo and stupid is someone from a site (that is very popular here; it's a kind of myspace). I didn't say anything about that person, since I know very little about them, I just pointed out a stupid grammar mistake they made on their profile. She starts asking me if that person is some girl's boyfriend and I said I don't know and on their profile it says they're single. Suddenly she switches from gossiping about those persons to telling me that I became a typical user of sites like that (when you tell that to someone here it's something bad, because it means you've become just like of those persons obsessed with that kind of sites and well, that wants to fit in the stupidest trends. - talk about polysemic -). Why? Because I have 43 pictures of me and my friends, some pics being older. I was like 'So what I have 40 pics?'. My friend said they're too many... it turned into this.
Me: If I want to have 40 pictures so be it.
Friend: What's their use? Someone realises how you look from 10 pics.
Me: What's the point in having 2 pics? I have so many so people see how I changed in time, ha. I have a lot of pics of me I didn't put online.
Friend: You didn't really change.
Me: sure. of course not.
Friend: do you really think people care?
Me: so what they don't care?
Friend: there's a study that says people look at others' profile for 10 minutes.
Me: enough time to look at all of my pics. and what's wrong if I want to keep all the pics?
Friend: they don't even load XD
Me: maybe for you
I'm just going to say that I get really mad when someone tells me something like that.
Then she suddenly starts talking about that person again. I ignored her and I asked her to explain to me what's wrong if I have 40 pics. Then everything turned into a discussion about why she's not okay if someone has more pics on their profile than she has and about how much she thinks I fit in stereotypes and just how "bad" I am. What annoys me the most is that she acts like she knows everythiiiiiiing about me so she's free to say whatever she wants about me, but I don't have the right to say she's not right, because that means I deny her right to an opinion. I asked her to stop judging me, because compared to what she could know about me, she knows very little. She said I judge other people as well and gave an example what I said the other day about some girls at my school that are huge posers. I told her I know a lot/very much about those girls and that those girls declared themselves "emo" and I didn't just make that up, so she can shut up.
And I told her what I think about her.
I told her that I noticed she copies a lot of people, though she kept denying it. I just told her a couple of things she copied and she tried to show it's not true, but she couldn't.
She said it's a lie and asked me to say something else about her. I told her if my opinion is a lie because she doesn't agree with it, then hers is a lie as well.
She got mad at me and offline.
Yes, I know I'm mean.
I know it's not right to act mean like that, but lately she's getting on my nerves so much. So so much. I just blew up like a volcano today out of something little because I couldn't stand her and her big mouth anymore -_-
And yes, I also know what I did is immature.