"We Who Are Perfect"Tonight I read a story by a member that was thoughtful and well written in ILIASM. As a member of this group I found her story to be an ex
Now these two people made a choice. They could have commented in a thoughtful way but they chose to devalue every member of this group as a bunch of sex starved people who have no conception of what a marriage should be. They both missed the point which is the lack of the refuser to even try and discuss the problems that living in a SM entails. The writer of this story was expressing her frustration and pain at the lack of respect from her partner. At the very least, she deserves some compassion for her pain and not these comments that clearly shows a lack of empathy and respect!
Imagine if these were the only comments she received? How would she feel about opening up a private part of her life again in hopes of understanding and compassion? Thankfully saner minds prevailed and she is getting great support from those of us who walk in her shoes. As for the members who reduced her pain and open sharing as bullshit? The shame is on their shoulders.
Yes! Shame on you for taking something well written and honest and reducing it to pure crap! You tell us more about who you are as human beings than you realize. Make a group and call it "We Who Are Perfect" and comment on your intellect and lack of humanity. Sit in your ivory towers of perfection and gaze down at we mere mortals and know that you are joined in your self righteous attitudes.
We will be quite happy without you and continue to be supportive and compassionate to others. One other thing. Go out and buy yourselves some high boots so that the bullshit that we wallow in does not mar your perfect lives!
dartist 56-60, F 4 Responses 1 Jul 23, 2010