My Confession/fusion

Hi. My name is {insert name}. I am {insert age} years old and {anorexic/bulimic/other}. I have this problem because, as a child, I was {physically/mentally/emotionally/verbally/sexually/noneoftheabove} abused. My favorite hobbies are {barfing/soccer/tryingnottostareatthatsnickersbaronyourdesk}.


What? Isn't that what I'm supposed to say? Well, here you go:

Hi. My name is Kendall. I am 17 years old and anorexic. I have this problem because, as a child, I was physically/mentally/emotionally/verbally/maybesexually abused. My favorite hobbies are reading, writing, and tryingtoactnormal.

There, happy now? I have successfully fit my 'problem' into five fill-in-the-blank-so-we-know-how-many-meds-you're-going-to-need sentances.

Or not.

Because maybe fill-in-the-blank doesn't always work. Maybe there's more to the story. Because maybe I'm not fully anorexic. Maybe I'm only anorexic-ish. Because maybe abuse isn't the only issue here. Maybe everything else is.

But I try not to think about that. Because everyone knows that brainlessrobotzombie Kendall = Good Kendall.

Good Kendall wakes up on time and goes to school and turns in her homework and aces that trig test and hangs out with her friends and goes home and does her chores and homeworkhomeworkhomework and laughs with her cheerful/cute/bookworm sister and talks to her hardworking/selfless/funny dad and


But Good Kendall gets tired. That's when the lights flicker on and the whispers come back. Crawling up my fat thigh, fat ***, fat stomach to tell me that I am unwanted, unloved,


And that's when Bad Kendall appears. Bad Kendall wakes up late and misses Spanish and accidentallyonpurpose forgets her undone homework and fails her chem test and blows off friends and goes home and readsreadsreads to


and yells at bratty/annoying/rude sister to shutthehellup and fights with selfish/taunting/helovesmysistermorethanme dad about neglected chores and crawls into closet to sleep the tears away and oops

I forgot to eat.

The burning gives distraction. Distraction from my past where memories creep into my head when I'm not watching. Distraction from my present, where noisenoisenoise creeps into my ears constantly. Distraction from my future, where college applications creep into my line of sight, demanding money that I don't have.

Everything is everywhere and I just want a moment of


Quietquietquiet. A quiet house, a quiet mind, a quiet stomach. Quiet = empty. So for my housemindstomach to be quiet, it needs to be empty. That means no sister screaming, no memories whispering, no food gurgling, just


But now, it's too quiet. I'm drowning in quiet. Quiet makes room for whispers. I need noise!noise!noise! Something to drown out the screaming silence. My head is never happy. And neither am I. Because I am a


and I have no idea what's going on.

aloneincalifornia aloneincalifornia
18-21, F
5 Responses Mar 3, 2010

I loved what you spoke my heart; my caged, trapped heart for which there is no escape. Nothing for me. Education kills me...the pressure is too much. Food is the only thing I have control over. I'm not anorexic, I just don't eat enough. It's the emptiness that makes me feel human. Distracts me from the real, emotional pain.

aroe- yeah thats the burning i was talking about:/ and my grades are already crap because i kinda blanked from February to April. But im just going to go to junior college, get my grades up, and transfer to my extremely expensive architectural school for the last 3 years:/

When you say "burning" do you mean the feeling you get in your stomach when you haven't eaten? Because that's what happens to me. In French class, I feel that lovely but terrible burn of hunger. It feels nicer than a full stomach. I can't stand having a full stomach. It reminds me of my half sister being born and my parents getting divorced. And even when your being "Bad" don't miss school. Because if you can get scholarships, college is one less worry for you. Good Luck.

thank you for understanding :) why do you burn yourself?

I like you. And that's how I feel too, although I'm trying (unsuccessfully) to quit burning myself. I really hope you find some understanding here.