She Is AsexualI myself am not asexual, but I do have a story and a question. I was dating a girl for a month and a half, she considered me her boyfriend. She is 26 and a virgin. I really fell for this girl, and she knew it, she had put a personal on craigslist, which is how I met her. A few times I tried to kiss her but she resisted, so I took it slow, thought maybe that's what she wanted. I finally kissed her on the lips on Christmas Eve, but she didn't kiss me back, so I asked her why she won't kiss me. Other times I asked she just said she wasn't a good kisser but this time she said she doesn't like kissing and thinks it's awkward, she has thought that way for 10 years. I asked her again on Christmas if something happened 10 years ago that made her feel that way, that's when she told me it wasn't going to work out between us, she told me she was asexual. Honestly, I have never heard of asexual before, but I wish she would have told me earlier in the relationship because my heart was truly broken when she broke up with me, I really cared for this girl a lot. She told me she put the ad on craigslist to see if she could change, but it didn't work. I was basically used for an experiment, I am sensitive, so I was pretty upset and still am. I do have a couple questions: How does this happen, to become asexual? Are asexual people happy? Is there a way for someone who is asexual to become attracted to people?
deleted 26-30 8 Responses 3 Dec 27, 2007