Asexual Seeking Sexless Relationship/marriageI've come to be very comfortable with that fact that I'm don't get pleasure from sex or for that matter never get aroused by the idea of having sex with another person. I'm okay with that part of my life/self. Now when it comes to finding a mate and starting a relationship my being asexual becomes a huge issue since having sex is a very huge part of being with someone especially when you move in together. My thing is I'm very romantic and love cuddling and all the other aspects of being invovled with someone.
So when I heard one of my friends talking bout how he is in a sexless marriage. To me that would be the ideal situation. So I've come to the conclusion that I'm looking for either another asexual or someone who isn't interested in having sex but wants a relationship. I know this would be easier said then done since finding a person that is asexual offline is like Mission Impossible in and of itself but I've read some of the stories of other asexuals who are in relationships with sexual people and I dont think I could see myself going on with someone who wanted or even needed something I'm not comfortable with giving. To each their own on that one.
I really am holding out for someone who is asexual like myself when it all comes down to it. My friends think that I'll die alone if I hold on to that but I'm okay with that. I know this is what I want and if I never find it then I'm okay.