I feel like it's near impossible to find asexual guys my age. Every boy in college is a ball of hormones. It just makes me sad because I want a boyfriend, but I don't want to go for a non-asexual because I feel like that wouldn't be fair to the guy. I still want someone to hold hands with and love just....minus all the sexual aspect. I just don't know how to find that kind of relationship.
Hush92 Hush92
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 15, 2014

I'm in the same position. I'm fine with being asexual, but I know no one else would be okay with that. I'm worried I'll always be alone because I don't want to have sex.

Yes finding one your age could be difficult. I didn't actually realise I was asexual until very recently. You might have to hold out for a few years, or seek someone older than you