I Think Im Asexual..
Posted October 28th, 2009 at 6:44AM
I fell in love with this guy-lost my virginity to him. I loved having sex with him. Sometimes didnt really enjoy it though. Well we broke up, started seeing this other guy. I really felt nothing to him. Making out was fun, it was nice being held...but the sex-just didnt enjoy it. I didnt really want to do it i just did.
Its like i dont like guys. Like i think there cute, maybe lets kiss..but i dont feel sexual towards them. like i just like the feeling of being held and stuff-and thats it. I dont want anything romantic no relationships.
And im really not attracted to girls. They can hug me and stuff but i dont like that at all-wouldnt kiss or anything like that.
im not quite sure if im asexual though....ive been with alot of guys but never really wanted sex or anything. Victor was the only one i was like that with...sooo idk if im asexual, and just went sexual for a minute...or what...kinda confused....
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same here, BellaVara
I married the guy who I lost my virginity with. he is the most wonderful husband a woman can hope for but I just don't feel the need to be with him in that way. I love kissing him, I could kiss him for hours and that's it but of course that's not enough for him. i don't want to lose him. otherwise I'm a truly happy woman, no issues with my upbringing, i have very loving siblings, no abuse of any kind and i don't think there's anything wrong with me (i go get my annual physicals, blood drawn and stuff) i'm slim, busy, I have 2 beautiful daughters and a rewarding career. must we always be having sex to be considered normal, what's wrong with not having sex?? I do think women are the most beautiful of creatures on earth (I mean look at us we have curves and beautiful stuff) but I'm not at all attracted to them, I just don't imagine it. Gross. Men, I like to see oh yes i do, not naked though they're pretty rudimentary and gross looking when naked.......do you think like me??
sometimes I feel I'm trapped in a teenagers mentality, when sex was off boundaries and all I could fantasize about was making out. idk. wish someone had the answers for me and you
Jan -
ya and it really sucks when all your girlfriends are total ***** and the pressure with boys just takes the fun out of everything! nevermind their moral boundries too! screw it id rather just stay home....
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