Fatal Attraction...not In a Crazy Way!

I still like the same dude from outta town..even though i haven't talked to him in afew days! I talked to my cousin about him, and she said don't really think too much about him because men go for what they see,and if your *** is outta sight then you're outta mind!! I don't wanna believe that but it makes perfect sense!!!! I hate playing these phone games...like i was the last one to call him and he said he would call me back but he hasn't ,and i don't wanna call him and make it seem like i'm desperate and chasing him!! Well he didn't call me back but he did leave a message on my myspace page...does that count?? UGHHH this **** is for the birds!!!!!!!