I Don't Like Hearing It.

This is true

Black Women are beautfull

I've heard the same comment from my mother. A pretty woman is a pretty woman regardless of skin tone.

Believe me... they are all idiots... I hate that when people are so discriminated against... I have many black friends and know many beautiful black girls/woman...but if my South African friends and family would know it...they will be so against me... I Hate it...

just an ignorant comment really. If as you say he isn't a racist, he then accidently made a racist comment, attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, no matter what creed or race a person is a part of. Hell, I was at a race meeting the other day and white stud horse was walking round the paddock. I said to my friend..."now that is the best looking horse there". He looked at me and said..."now that is just totally horse racist....". I couldn't disagree with him!!

Perhaps no more than a very poor choice of words,,, or,,,, could be,, he's a total racist,,,

I think that may be a compliment either. Somehow it does not sound that way. I think maybe that person has no bad intention by saying that.

I agree with you. Sometime ppl don't pay attention on what they're saying. Can be they did it un purpose to hear what you had to say.

I've known several who are very attractive, some outright gorgeous. If a woman looks good, she looks good regardless of her race. To put it in the context of your coworker just shows incompetence. I have to wonder; if the girl was white and unattractive, would he have said " she looks ugly for a white girl."?

Woww. "Cute for a black girl?" What's that supposed to mean? Sheesh. Sometimes people can be so ignorant.

"Cute for a black girl" - what a silly thing to say. Black girls are beautiful. I don't know why people are like this. I have heard colleagues at work admit that they "don't find dark skinned women [meaning black, Indian, whatever] attractive". Maybe they should try it, like I did, except of course it means you don't find white women attractive anymore afterwards. I know I couldn't go back to white women now.



Of course, I have heard similar remarks the other way round, so to speak, black women (or men) saying they don't find white men (or women) attractive.

Of course I recognized my younger friend as being a black woman. I saw her as a very attractive young woman who happened to be black. She was very nice and was very pleasing to the eye. So her skin was darker than mine, BFD!

I agree, that was a very thoughtless comment.

As a black female, I have been around that comment many times and it is often that the world has voted us to be the ugliest women on the planet. It is very frustrating because as black women we are often told how to look, how to do our hair, how to walk, who to be with, etc. We never seem to do anything right in people's eyes.



All that I can say is that people have their opinions.