So I am not fashionable - I used to be a longhair, wearing black clothes and extreme metal t-shirts. I am not trendy, but look smart (as smart as I can, which is usually a bit scruffy) for work.
I don't think I am a total nerd, but I am not cool and was recently told I will never be cool!
So I am wondering how realistic it is to accept that women like nerdy guys. If a woman has the choice between a Brad Pitt lookalike who was very into himself and a nerd, would she really go for the nerd?
And, do any of you ladies live in Kent, England?!!! :)