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I Am Attracted to Nerdy Guys

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By: unlimited
Written on May 18th, 2008

So I am not fashionable - I used to be a longhair, wearing black clothes and extreme metal t-shirts. I am not trendy, but look smart (as smart as I can, which is usually a bit scruffy) for work.

I don't think I am a total nerd, but I am not cool and was recently told I will never be cool!

So I am wondering how realistic it is to accept that women like nerdy guys. If a woman has the choice between a Brad Pitt lookalike who was very into himself and a nerd, would she really go for the nerd?

And, do any of you ladies live in Kent, England?!!! :)

By: unlimited
Age: 41-45 , Male
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    littleroo
    littleroo

    cool is highly overrated. Whats nice about dorks/nerds they are comfortable with who they are and that is one of thee things makes them attractive. And I also don't think Brad Pitt is that good looking.. he is a good actor but I think his looks are overrated.

    Oct 1, 2008
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    unlimited
    unlimited

    lol, thought so!

    Jun 9, 2008
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    NaNeenah
    NaNeenah

    lol, nope...i'm the good ol' US of A.

    Jun 9, 2008
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    desieyez
    desieyez

    NaNeenah I totally agree with you- Brad Pitt: not that hot..like at all. All I require is that you hold a stimulating conversation and then i'm all yours :D

    Jun 9, 2008
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    unlimited

    Cool!



    Bet you don't live in Kent though! x

    Jun 9, 2008
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    NaNeenah
    NaNeenah

    lol. to be totally honest with you, i don't think Brad Pitt is as hot as "everyone" makes him out to be, but i really like him as an actor. i have a soft spot for so-called nerds. i find intelligence to be very attractive...

    Jun 8, 2008
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