It Sucks That Women Have To Fear That Is How It Is With Us

When I make a move on oyu and seek consentual sex there are a number of things I find personally painful for the idea that a woman might in theory feel whenWhen I make a move on oyu and seek consentual sex there are a number of things I find personally painful for the idea that a woman might in theory feel when I make an advance. Primarily that she could find my move reductive and feel like my advance was trying to tell her I didn't care about her as a person.

I mean this in this kind of way. Not only do I care how my advances make women feel in the light of the fact that they are seen as a means to an end to so many men... I'm not those men...

But there's somehing I again find myself immediately asking if she's going to wonder "does he only care because how he caused me to feel could potentially make me say no"

and I really mean this to the bone: I Care how it makes her feel because I want her to be happy. Not because it's a game and I could just make her say no.

I don't make moves on my friend Aenea for instance because I know she's kind of a pushover even when she wants to say no and She's in a relationship with my best freind Lisa (arenae) and I can't stand the idea of hurting Arenae that way. I would honestly hurt myself if I did something like that



ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
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Dec 15, 2012