At Least That Is What Everyone Says

I joined this group because I receive similar generic compliments. My family tells me how handsome, funny, and smart I am. My online friends tell me the exact same thing. Yet I have not even touched a girl... in a casual social setting, for at least 3 years now. So why should I believe any of these so-called compliments? I mean, according to.. well pretty much everyone one, I should have no problem getting any kind of female I want. Yet here I am alone.

It is because there is a very good chance that everyone is just telling me that because they are not honest enough to tell me the truth. Why is no one that honest? I mean is it really that bad to just say "Yeah, you are lucky to not be a virgin"? When did people become so soft? It makes me sick it really does to be honest. All I hear are lies about how no one can understand why I have not had a casual interaction with a female in years? I am pretty sure they all know deep down... yet they do not want to admit it.

So yeah I am joining this group because this is what everyone else says, not because I believe this crap. So I will continue to endure the feigned looks of shock and amazement as I keep telling people how females do not want me. To steal a line from one of my favorite shows. Crack ****** who need the money say "No Thanks, I can do better"
ForgottenMale ForgottenMale
26-30, M
2 Responses May 13, 2012

They aren't lying to you about being smart, handsome and funny. Its just the people around you. My family tells me the same thing about how good looking i am. According to my family i should be an actor/model/comedian/ new owner of the play boy mansion(exaggerating). Its just how families are. The truth of the matter is most of us aren't really attractive. The majority of people are average looking. I'm in the same boat as you, a, "Handsome, Funny, good looking" guy. Yet single.

Wait... I am confused.... you said they are not lying... but they are?

No i'm saying its subjective. Its a biological trick. Everyone's kid is the best to them.

h ookay, that is what I figured you meant. Yeah, I know I have explained that to people before as well. Most do not want to admit it.

Yeah, me too.

I know I am not alone, but it is not that comforting...