I am attractive, fun, sweet, smart, and yet single. I just don't "get" how it all works. I meet people and it always seems they are more into me than I am into them, and then I find someone I really, really like and we get on great, but then he won't call for no apparent reason, even after he's made it clear he wanted to see me again... Do guys get shy? Do they "forget" why they liked you so much and decide it couldn't have been that great? I do have flaws of course which are the cause of some of the not-calling, but in other cases the guy leaves all excited about the next time we hang out, only to fail to follow up... The guys I've been in relationships with ALL came as a result of being in a common situation on a semi-regular basis, or through friends - never has a relationship developed after meeting someone once and relying on phone calls etc. I work in a small office and have only a small group of friends, so I don't meet people "through friends" much these days, and it seems I'm perpetually single.