Swept Off My Feet By A Man In UniformFor as long as I can remember I promised myself I would never date someone in the military. I knew I just couldn't handle all of the uncertainty, the moving, the seperation. All of that changed when I met my boyfriend. We met at school last winter and hit it off right away. We haven't been dating that long but we know what we have is real and want to spend the rest of our lives with each other and I have become more supportive of the him being in the military.
I wrote off the idea of him being deployed since he is in the national guard but he came home from drill and said he may be getting deployed to Afghanistan in October. I tend to see the negative in every situation so this is hitting me hard and I don't know where to turn. That is what got me here, I am looking for women to just talk to who understand what I'm going through and to learn from their expierences.