Does He Think I Don't Know???So for the past month now my live-with boyfriend/fiance or whatever he was/is??? of 3 YEARS has been lying right to my face.....this is KILLING me, why would you lie to someone who you say you love and want to be with forever, its so wrong and sneaky. and it's about something so miniscule and stupid, but makes me wonder if he'll lie about something so small , he'll lie about even worse things...so heres my story....I need to let it out
4 weeks ago I say "want to meet for lunch together" and he tells me he's way too busy at work and he has too much to do for a lunch break. I say "ok" later that day I decite to go get me my favorite sweet tea on my lunch break, then as I'm driving there I see HIM and some chick walking out of the resturant!!! WTF?? He's "too busy" has too much to do???" LIAR I called him out on it when he got home and was so calm even though I should have been off the walls mad, I told him " I dont like being lied to, it makes me feel like crap and it makes me think you're hiding things from me" he says I'm sorry it wont happen again , next time I'll invite you too.....blah, blah blah.........."
So since then I see him differently and dont trust or belive him.....and I have perfect reason to...because he did it AGAIN today.....with the same girl no less..AND SHE"S MARRIED!!!!! WHO ELSE CONSIDERS THIS CHEATING????
LIES ON TOP OF LIES WILL GET YOU NO WHERE!!!
He who permits himself to tell a lie once, finds it much easier to do it a second and a third time till at length it becomes habitual.
the punishment of a liar: he is not believed, even when he speaks the truth.
I'm lost I dont know what to do, I can't be with someone I can't trust and I dont want to be........Im about to lose it....I am stuck in a town where I know 2 thats right 2 ppl and he's the one who puts the roof over my head and everything else.....I'm stuck in a bad situation that's only going to get worse....I'm stuck and theres nothing I can do!!!!!
I'm not an idiot like he thinks i am, i dont deserve this and Im better than that, yet he wins everytime because he doesnt know I know about the 2nd time it happened....I'll never trust him again and isnt that the basis for a good relationship??? I cant get up the guts to leave...I have no where to go!!!!!!