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I Am Being Stalked and My House Being Bugged

I am being stalked and my house is being bugged. This has been going on for the last two years.

I am 40 and single woman. I live alone.

Two years back I noticed that whenever I went to the bathroom, my neighbour would come out of her house. I changed the time of my going to bathroom, but my neighbour would still come out. The moment I entered the bathroom, her door would open, she would do something quickly and then go back into her house. It didnot matter whether it was 12 in the night, 5 in the morning or 11 in daytime, she would come out definetly. What she did during this time I could not see, because whenever I went to investigate, she would hide. This continued for 365 days for 2 years. My bathroom is inside my house and there is noway anyone can see when I am entering it. I tried lot of things to check it but could not. It would stop only when there was no electricity in the building. I looked for secret cameras in the entire house but could not find one.

I was also simultaneosly being stalked by the  neighbour. They used some detectives to follow me. Wherever I went, they came.  After I had visited some shop, they would visit the same shop and badmouth me. They probalby used some CD or mobile images. Strangers laughed at me and people whom I have never met looked at me with hatred. Everybody seemed to be knowing me but how I do not know. Nobody directly told me anything. This again continued for 2 years despite my best attempts. My emails were read and my phone tapped. My privacy was totally destroyed. I was extremly mentally disturbed. Nobody believed me and nobody understood and nobody cared.

I finally gave a police complaint against two neighbours. Both these people are 45 somethings, happlily married and have big kids. In both cases husband and wife were togather in the act. After my compalint, one stalker family immediately moved out of the building. The other stayed put. However the secret camera problem persisted.

I finally changed my house and the city. That removed the secret camera problem. I have now some peace of mind. I am also a stronger and more aware person now. I have started studying the stalkers and know how they operate.

But I am still being  stalked by the same vengeful people.  There are at a time 5-6 guys at different intersections in the road. I dodge them a lot but they find me easily. Their behavior is just like the CIA.


I would like to put an end to this stalking. I also want to know how secret cameras look.How can I  tell whether my new house has them or not. How can they be disabled? Is there a website about them? How are they obtained?  How can I get rid of the stalkers. I cannot keep on changing cities all my life? Does anybody know?

aproudwoman aproudwoman 46-50, F 113 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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Anyone in southern California feel free to email me. Eeelaine929 is my email for google Careful of these stalkers pretending to be victim's also avoid FFCH as they are perps I only trust a website called fightgangstalking as far as tactics and help

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I've called the police because my neighbors was selling weed by the pound in Norristown Pa.A week later I was being sprayed with chemicals. I couldnt find the source . I moved to Philadelphia, Pa. It began again using my upstairs new neighbors. How can this be stopped

i have exactly the same experience. The owner goez out of the gate always after i bath, and go back to his house. I suspect he watches as i fix myself. I looked anywhere but could not find any. How come he knows when I bath, or things i spoke with someone over the phone... Another group of men, in another apartment seemed paid my neighbor to cam me inside house. They spy my emails, chats, and badmouthed me to would be employers. I am not aware what they use to spy, please help

I'm being stalked by an organized crime ring, go to Google counter spying sites, there are support groups for victims of stalking, you have to be strong. There are ways to stop this. I am poor but managed to buy an radio frequency detector. Next on list is from please look at that site, it explains a lot about the equipment used in these black ops. Good luck, stay strong.

There are mindcontroller eyeball pediphile babyfucking psychopath sociopaths narssasitic Deyette"s out there with technology stalking innocent women with families. This **** rapes,sexually assaults you,lies about you and your beautiful family. follow you around illegaly. this filth is at 10919-141street Surrey BC and at 142-108 first side alley you see with a camper parked out back. watch for this filth its a gross ring of Deyette babyfukers who take pics of naked women and children its soooooooooo disgusting how this filth thinks with technology its a crime and this filth should be arrested. if any honest athorities read this please investigate, NWO is one the corner of 109-141street is doing this as well its a gross ring going around doing this illegally with technology thats against the law please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Omg I would really love an opportunity to speak with you. I currently feel like I am being stalked. My neighbors hide from me and I have had a similar situation where people have done things in front of my apt while I was in other parts of house. I would love to speak with you about these matters. Trust me I am 32 and I feel like my neighbors are always watching what I do and looking at me with hatred. When I open my front door someone next door opens their door. It's crazy. I too want to put a stop to it. I thought maybe the mirror in the bathroom is a camera. I can't say for sure. I do know that I have contacted psychics about the harassment and they never denied it was such.

I have the same problem real-estate is really huge in every city, sometimes you can rent a home and your next door neighbor will secretly be the owner of the home your renting, for the last 2 years my neighbors been doing the same thing. <br />
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I hired a private investigator and we are in the process of collecting evidence to revoke the title of the home, get their real-estate license taken away, put them behind bars and make sure they are never able to buy, lease, or sell a home in the United States for the rest of their lives. <br />
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Sometimes owners lived in the home prior to leasing it and equipped the home with hidden cameras so they can monitor their tenants, and it gets real ugly from there because some may be drug or alcohol addicts, have financial problems etc. <br />
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When the first of the month comes along and you are constantly late on your rent which is due on the 1st of each month but not late till the end of your grace period the owners become desperate because they have bills they need to pay and can not pay those bills until you pay your rent.<br />
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So owners will sneak into the home your leasing and poison your food and water supply, brake your electronic, cars, anything of that nature that has value to it; to get even with you. <br />
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In my eyes if you only own 1 or 2 properties you have no business in the real-estate game because you can not afford to maintain the properties properly. <br />
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I am going to murder my next door neighbors for sneaking into my home but first I have to move then come back and do home invasion murder everyone in their house. <br />
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If they do it to you they will do it to the next people that move there and if you have small children 8-9 years old they will become pedaphile's.

Oh yeah I forgot to add they hired someone to hide in the ceiling of the home there is someone hiding in the ceiling of my home.

Ever since my step father passed away and my mother insisted we move out of the abuse shelter into his old house life has been hell. I do not say much to many about anything. My mother would know things that I had said verbatim. She would and still does lay into me about how much electricity is being used, or how much mileage was "done recently" to his old truck that I drive. Too many things were cropping up out of her mouth or other peoples from where we live. I could never explain any of it tho. Finally I put out cameras to find out who was tearing up the trash I would leave outside for trash day... it matches the neighbor behind us. Something said while the neighbor was near by but not in earshot would fall from peoples lips. Things being moved around late at night again video shows it is a match. Recently I took the desk top and moved it into the living room because the laptop died for no reason. I know now the lap top was sabotaged with a viral agent, and that the agent was sent thru the desk top. Desk top used to belong to the neighbor. (I accepted it before I knew he was an ***. I would connect them to update the desk top since its XP and the lappie was win7. I have been going thru the desk top deleting things I do not need/know what they are and dont use. All of a sudden today I get several messages stating that "the other user has cancelled this action" and these files are suddenly off limits to do anything with. My parent knowing too much about my life that I didnt share with her. The neighbor fitting the image almost to a T of the shadow figure ripping up the trash and going over everything on my then van (was mine until it died from a sever case of being screwed with) and the neighbor knowing a high school knick name and other details about me that my kids or my ex husband never even knew... to the computer showing me that pop up... and I could list so many more things that we would be here all day asking ourselves am I crazy and lost my mind or is this really happening.... made me take a stance today. I have been typing notes on the computer and leaving them with the neighbors name on it. Going by the time given when I saved them written down on a piece of paper near me I can deduce that hes seeing them because the last used time stamp is different. I have all of the evidence set aside away from where I live. If something happens to me this info will all go to the courts and he will be arrested and put in jail. I have found personal information of his wife. I am more than happy to share this info as well with people if he doesnt back off. I mean who leaves a social Sec number... on a computer you are giving away. I will not let anything happen nor will I allow her ssn to be stolen and her credit wrecked, but should it disappear from my hard drive it is again more proof that hes got remote access whenever he wants it. I left an abusive situation from my ex only to have my parent encourage the neighbor to stalk me. knowing that I have no qualms about putting her and him jail for the three years of hell.
Dont take the ****. Do everything in your power to protect yourself because its your rights they are violating and its your life they are ruining.

I am a 49 year old American indian male residing in Durant, Oklahoma ,I have been a victim of somebodys evil ,odd and imappropriate .as well as illegal, its like I hear a auditory confirmation everywhere I go. and these persons claim to also have a visual of me everywhere I someone has a visual and auditory affirmation of my current private and personal living situations ,even sex and the private residential bathroom seems to be targeted as they voice sexual gestures when Im naked or using the restroom.Its been nine years with countless pleas to friends family neighbors police politians doctors ,etc..etc..and no one will take my word as the truth ,they just shrug it off and then it seems as though they tt start voicing gestures and slander and private happenings in my personal life, they sound as though they are on a power trip ,.,as they have told me that we sre doing this too you :CAUSE WE CAN".I an a gay man also a minority and i know I have alot of friends in this county..bUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON OR PURPOSE THIS THREATENING SITUATION HAS NO STOPPED...CAN SOMEONE help me...desperate for safety and understanding of why im being targeted...Kevin G.

I am a 49 year old American indian male residing in Durant, Oklahoma ,I have been a victim of somebodys evil ,odd and imappropriate .as well as illegal, its like I hear a auditory confirmation everywhere I go. and these persons claim to also have a visual of me everywhere I someone has a visual and auditory affirmation of my current private and personal living situations ,even sex and the private residential bathroom seems to be targeted as they voice sexual gestures when Im naked or using the restroom.Its been nine years with countless pleas to friends family neighbors police politians doctors ,etc..etc..and no one will take my word as the truth ,they just shrug it off and then it seems as though they tt start voicing gestures and slander and private happenings in my personal life, they sound as though they are on a power trip ,.,as they have told me that we sre doing this too you :CAUSE WE CAN".I an a gay man also a minority and i know I have alot of friends in this county..bUT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON OR PURPOSE THIS THREATENING SITUATION HAS NO STOPPED...CAN SOMEONE help me...desperate for safety and understanding of why im being targeted...Kevin G.

Please see FFCHS, there are many people being stalked as you describe.

When I was a young woman, I experienced a similar thing. It didn't matter where I moved to my home was being broken into, sometimes before I had actually moved in. I had strange calls all hours of the day and night, even when I had given no one my number yet. This went on for 4 long years. The police couldn't do anything because I couldn't prove anything. I had my windshield wipers fly off, in a storm, on the freeway. My brake lines had been cut and my kids and I could of died. My underwear would be thrown all over my room when I got home sometimes. It just went on and on. So my friend (female) took me gun shopping and taught me to handle a gun and shoot it. I moved in with her for awhile and she had an alarm system. It still got broken into, but it was great because she knew what to do and finally she really believed me. That's because we were shopping together when it happened. So we started camping for awhile, because we didn't have to use our real names at camp grounds. Then her family gave me and my kids a house to stay in for as long as we wanted, but it was in the middle of no where. I did not have a single stalking incident while living there. I stayed for a year and then tried to get a place in the city. It was broken into before I moved in. So I went back to the middle of no where. I then got all of our names changed in court. They wouldn't change social security numbers back then, so I did what I had to, not use mine on anything. I waited another year and then rented a place. Nothing, no stalking, no calls, no problems other than ordinary ones. Stalking really happens and you really can defeat the stalker(s). Start with an alarm system and then buy a dog. Install hidden cameras in your house to see if you can catch anyone. Install hidden cameras focused on your walkway, mailbox, and any areas you think are a problem, ect. Use audio equipment as well. I know it's hard to think clearly when you're in the middle of it, but as soon as you feel safer, you will be able to think again. Sometimes this kind of thing can make you feel crazy and that's exactly what they want. So don't give it to them. Best of luck to you.

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I've gone through this too. The difference with me is that I was being watched by the FBI and the local police, depending where I lived. I also received calls each night when I got home. It started when I was 12 and went on for over 30 years. In 2009, a cop barged into my home and I broke his back. His partner drug him out. When they called me, they didn't understand why I did that. The bottom line was that someone in Washington DC signed me up for the FBI. Local cops join in and screw with the new recruit until he breaks. Like I said, it went on for years. Because of this, I had no friends in school and after school, I was the guy no one wanted to talk to. Why do this to me? When I was 12, I started developing ESP. At first, I could see what people were thinking. It continued to develop and when I was 18, it was out of control. I've been in lots of fights and had guns pointed at me many times. I'm surprised no one was ever killed.

I too am going through the same thing it has ruined my life and my mothers they have taken all our money and property and it still goes on at work at home everywhere !

Hi, I would like to say that you are brave to say what is happening to you. You are not delusional, nor are you paranoid. There are posts on here claiming that you are without knowing you. They are stalkers. They are part of this type of activity.
You are being stalked digitally. It is an easy thing to do.
Stalkers like this are trying to destroy your mind.
You need to take really good care of yourself.
You really should move in with some else that you trust.
Again, I say that it really seems like you are the victim of digital stalking.
Those that want you to believe that you are paranoid or delusional want you to believe that so that you will not do anything to protect yourself.
Get a video camera. Carry it with you everywhere. Get use to using it. Get a small powerful one.
Start documenting what is happening to you.
Get a bug detector and use it often.
Learn about digital stalking, high tech stalking by proxy
and you will see how easy this can happen to anyone.
Learn as much as you can about technology and especially digital stalking.
My guess is that you caught the eye of some perverts who want to hurt you. He can't touch you physically, yet, so he wants to destroy your mind and your reputation.
You need to build yourself up and care for yourself.
You need to trust your own instincts too.
Also, you can develop PTSD from all of these occurrences.
That is a normal human response to terror that never ends.
I can't tell you everything that I know about this subject but you are NOT alone. There are others.
Also, if I were you, I would delete the mean, nasty and condesending replies here that want you to believe that it is all in your head. That technique is called gas lighting.
I am so sorry to hear that you have such difficulties.
But, read up and learn great self-care.
All the Best to you!

One more thing: before you delete the negative, nasty and condesending posts, make sure to have copies of them, including source code. Then delete the stalkers' gaslighting comments. Good Luck!

go to freedom of informations act, find out who thought bs about you and have a lawyer clear your name.

Get idea!

You know - its wonderful to know you're not alone in this - I have always known that quite a few people are actually victims of what I found out is called "vigilante" or "gang" stalking. It has a few other names as well - "street theatre" being one. It's surreal at time. For a period of time I resided in that awful space I can only refer to as the brink of insanity. A few things you new to know - these folks are organized. Not organized in a sense that each individual member knows what they are doing - they know their small role. Nothing more. I truly think that the numerous people involved in this realize how large or how horrific a thing they are doing - their scope just is not there. Simply. Now - these people will threaten you; slow down their cars, quickly speed up. Gun their
cars at you - harass you at your work place. I've lost several jobs as a direct result of my experience over the past few years with this. Things I am able to difinitively allow any one going through to know 1. This is intended to MAKE you SEEM crazy. 2. These people are vigilantes, in their own eyes. What that means is for some obscure and possibly porposterous reason, they feel somehow, someway, you have escaped justice. That is what they have been told. I have been called and accused of awful things I wouldn't dream of doing. I will admit to a checkered past, but I would like to think, actually, I know for a simple fact - I have not ever done anyone else any worse than the majority of people. You need to find your inner strength - it's imperative. Yea, you know what - it's ok to be paranoid - sometimes - they've given us 101 reasons. What's even funnier is they mock us for said paranoia as they're witnessing it.

It's like saying "Hi... Pot calling ya, Kettle... Look - I don't know how to say this... You're blue!" What I mean by that is they don't even realize they potentially would be much worse than you or I in our shoes, openly mock us - and sit there in a complete state of "euphoria." Meaning they should know better - subconsciously they potentially do - but frankly, they do not give a damn.

They are going to threaten you. Scream at you. Belittle you. Do what they can, sometimes at all cost (they brainwashed me in San Fran - surreal) to their moral fiber to make you feel inferior.

Something to remember. When a group of people surrounding you act south of insane to make you think you're crazy - who are they crazy ones? Smile - enjoy the amusement.

Try. I read somewhere that those of us who end up with this "predicament" will often carry it for the rest of our lives. It never goes away.

Ultimately - you're not allowed to give up hope. I'm not anyone - but I command you as a fellow human and person going through this - you are NOT ALLOWED TO GIVE UP. Ever. Why? Because, they were trying to get me to jump out the window in my 22nd floor apartment - I was once so far gone that I actually questioned the laws of physics. I truly lost my mind... I almost believed them; then. The theme for me was "if you believe you can fly - you can. Jump. Try it."

It's sinister.
Just be a good person.
People will see you for who you are. Do not, however, do it for them. They are worthless to you - those that act like they actually have a right to participate in it. Why? Because they're myopic - someday - it may be their child. Karma and god have a very peculiar way of making sure what comes around goes around. Just be you. Don't lose you. Don't be afraid. Be vigilant. Speak up. This is modeled to resemble schizophrenia - so. Yea. It's hard to find a therapist. But write - put it this way - if they know everything, maybe you can harrange them with the notepad on your iPhone apps. Make yourself heard. Try not to be myopic. Even though it sucks - in a monumental kind of way - there is a genuine world out there too. You just have to look for the beauty in it. My name is Jacob. I have no shame in my face, my past, my sins and the way I have lived my life. I refuse to hide. You should too. I wish you all the very best.
- Jacob

P.s. for god sakes, everyone, calm down, please. They want to see you panic - freak - disintegrate. Cool as ice, baby. Not always easy, but worth it to learn

I am going through the same thing no one will believe me how sick n pathetic some people are what can I do I told my spouse she thinks im crazy what do I do I've been being stalked for months now what do I do

my spouse had a difficult time in believing i was being gangstalked, the crap this corrupt block watch did to me for four yrs, took illegal ****, gang raped, looked at my family in a dergitory manner, lied try to defimate people i love character, watched us go to the bathroom, the only person this **** never called down is my spouse, which is odd. this white french family of corrupt block watch i pray gets arrested its filth, it finds happiness in filth. its gross ring of mindcontroller eyeball pediphile babyfucking gross trolls, this **** is at 10910-141 Street surrey, BC.


go to the freedom of informtions act and clear your name some peice of **** had you tagged for no reason, this **** has technology that looks in your home and takes illegal ****, this **** is corrupt misfits of society there are web sites that may b infomative, dont ever sign any petions with ur real name. take 5- htp to help with the controlled emotions. STAY STRONG AND NEVER GIVE UP !!!!!!!!!!!! take pictures of the **** thats looking at you and get there licence plate numbers. corrupt block watch is stalking me with this criminal technology which is. illegal to have.

youre probably not delusional. theres more of us out there. i've changed cities a lot too. i wont ever buy a home or have a permanent place to rest my head because of how sick it has gotten. my roommates will start repeating the same things i discuss at work with people. im currently looking for a new place and going to lie to my roommates about where im moving. how do they know what i talk about at work? its like i have 24/7 camera/microphone on me and my computer has been bugged. also, random stalker people will approach me at bars and start discussing things and topics and interests that they wouldnt know about me unless they were stalking me and my life. its sick. i just want to live in peace by myself without being stalked and criticized and followed by psychotic people with no life. i cant take it anymore. i feel imprisoned. my hair is turning white and im still young. i feel like a lab rat. its scary not knowing who people are that do this sick crap to people. im a private person and just want my sanity and to live in peace by myself without people observing and judging and criticizing my life. i just want to live alone and dont like a lot of people in my life. these are people that i dont even really want to know and they assume everyone wants people in their lives or something. i dont get it. im sick of this sick twisted ****.

If I may bring something in your story. I also have been stolked and still are being stolked by my upstairs neigbour two old men. I have also noticed that they dont realy have much of a life and it looks like they just want to take revange on anyone. Now knowing that these two men are jewisch doesnt matter to me where they are realy from but picking up signals from outside that they only want to distroy other people,s life...only looking at my own slowly been sucked up bye them two. I have had police that have neglected me not to mention my personal things financialy it seems scary to know that even this man or his group interfer. I have been called all kinds of name,s pyscotic crazy woman...scitzofrenie paranoia...but that only idecates that accutualy I am not realy the one who is sick...they are. I call them pathalogical lier,s they live a dubbel life style...intend to place there life and make others believe they are a part of mine. Dangoures people in the matter that they intend to look for new people or expand there group. I personaly think he is looking for someone to cover his **** that I know that they are old and wealthy, they are also servivers of the secound world war. I am trying to live my life with my girls and protect them and my friends who I dont contact just to keep them safe out of his range. He do believe He has been steeling money from outside, and he is looking at me when I go outside were I go what I buy. Stolking is a crime. investagtion about who does this and why they do, leaves with tomany question marks. my advice is leave them to rot in there rotten live,s and drown in the money that they dont intend to give back easaly... this thing is reading my message write now....I call it a thing.. like a gost...draw a picture of it,s face then stamp on it every morning hahaha. that was my experience hope you will experience peace and like want protection from them and have a private life.

ive now been stalked for 8mos! I started documenting all accounts of this person driving by over and over noting dates,times and my feelings.Finally this person got charged with stalking.Although this person didn't get a dui or handgun taken even though the law enforcement was well aware of this inappropriate behavior!Im so exhausted and angry how ive been treated by all the persons involved that are suppose to be protecting or hell even concerned at this point about my welfare. I also soooo understand the feeling of the very folks that are closest to me have mad me feel like im crazy! The thought of someone saying to me just ignore it or don't look out my windows ****** me off!This is my home that nobody has the right to take away the peace we are all suppose to be able to feel and enjoy inb our safe place.All of this craziness started for me when I finally had enough of this persons aggressive way to involved interest in my life and gave his *** the boot out of my and my familys life!Now im being electronically stalked under constant survellience.What im experiencing now is a very organized type of stalking! I really have just wanted to give up at times but know I cant due to the fact aii know im a very strong woman and if this **** can just about break my spirit what woulf it do to someone that wasn't as out spoken.Ive have so learned this is very hard to prove but if anyone has any suggestions in blocking infrared camera surveilence or what type of security system to get pleasw let a sista know!:) lets not give up but unite in putting a stop to this unjust bull! Wishing all well!

does anyone know how I can legally bring my stalker to justice even though I cannot catch him, a year ago a man I know from my old neighborhood approached me about the situaltion. He seem to know a lot about the details of my stalking, I was suppose to meet with him but he won't come forward and the police in Detroit said I can't make him so in the meantime I keep getting my clothes cut up or taken, nails in my tires, money missing from my purse weaking up with the odor of cirgarettes, on my clothing even though I don't smoke. and you can only image what his been left on my clothing or even body decussing

I'm going through a similar situation where I'mbeing stalked he comes in and out of my home takes things, and I never can seem to catch him. I've been to the detroit Police but they either would'n or couldn't help me. so because no one will take me serious he's getting away with muder and making my life a living hell. I told them who it was and he's still free and everynight I lose sleep trying to catch him in anyway possible. but can never seem to catch him this has been going on for over twenty years he's obbessed.

Well for anyone being stalked or harrassed I feel for you all.two years now I myself I have had 24hr survailance done on me by my employer.the company has a lot to hide so to stalk me and harrass is there way of revenge. When my brother started seeing what was going on things got real we were pushed beyond breaking point they use police and even our family and friends to divide us. My brother ended up in mental hospital for a week and since then we don't talk he has fear of anything electronic and going out in public.we both found that if we go to get help we get odd advice and or manipulated answers. As far as seeing people post on web sites that are new or never have spoke rings true. I personally have had this happen on many post I have put out and only verifies that we are stalked via computer. Honestly if this is what your seeing ask why. I have a huge possible class action suit that could bankrupt my employer that I had no clue of till a week ago. Nobody spends time and money for no reason. Rember if u are sure people are stalking then why post if it bothers you to the point they get to see you are being drove crazy. If you truely cant prove it is happening then get your self a rf detector and sweep house. Or do as I did turn off wi fy on smart sit rf detector next to phone and watch to see if it goes off on occasion or as my case every hr almost like clock work. This is pinging phone to make sure you have not left location. This too is illegal.only other option is to hire a counter private investigator but do it from a pay phone cause anything u say on own phone is most likely heard

there is a lot of stuff you can do to stop these people from spying in on you. I found a lot to stop these perverts.there is technology to stop them. these perves can put cams in your outlets your vents etc. places you don't think a perve would put in which is more likely they did and watching every movement you make. they can even watch you as you leave to go in your house. these are crooks and criminals that needs to be stop

Me and my family going thru the same thing they can put cameras as tiny as tiny as a small pin from a needle in your home or in your furniture there is more to tha they can do

I'm going threw the exact thing u are. I have no one. Its just my children and I. My friends, my family. Everyone thinks I'm going crazy. There is 2 people that seem to see what I see but still refuse to help me. If there are any real answers that could help. Please I need it. Before I loose everything I love.

Stay strong - that's the only answer. Protect your children. People are frankly 1. Afraid to help you - 2. Under the impression that this is supposed to make you a better person.

Ultimately what you can do is BE a better person. It's hard. You need to start learning to control the adrenaline when it kicks in. Let it slow you down. Give you a little clarity. It's perverse, but true, that eventually it's like a rush. When they swarm - I mean swarm - you're frightened... Then you realize they are all cowards. Hiding in vehicles, rushing past - using their technology to make theirs malfunction. Screaming; watching from far away but unable to actually say hello. Those that do not have malicious intent can turn out to be fans. You may not ever escape this - and I know that sucks ( I miss my autonomy and privacy - the feeling of being in control of my own destiny,) however, you can create those who see you for who you are. You actually are in a position of power wether you realize it or not. They will attempt to tell you how to live. You can show and teach them how to be compassionate, caring, genuine. They see you. Try and eventually inspire them. New lies will circulate - its a cycle... But I once divided a city. This one I don't care too so much. This one is my home, for a long time. Refuse to allow them to keep you from your dreams. Yea. You have to work a lot harder, handle extra stress. Eventually you will be saying to them "you call that a challenge?" I won't forget the day I mumbled that at work waiting tables after a very random busy lunch and a third of the dining room stared laughing. You can do it

Legal Shield. It's the answer! If you are really seeking help, you may want to check out something meaningful. Yes there is a cost, but it's also worth it. I believe the Bible helps us with problems but sometimes we would like to see things happen faster. God bless and hoping the best!

Hey! Well said. I've made a bit of a personal attack on some Christians for this. It's no more appropriate than others taking a personal attack at me, I suppose. But it's not so much Christianity I'm attacking. I have read the bible (long story, years ago) as well as the teaching of Buddha, looked into some pagan beliefs, astrology, blah blah. The point is that I find all religion is useful - it teaches us principals for a happier, fuller life if we choose to actually listen to the words, become informed on their meaning... Most Christians know the saying "a camel has a better chance of getting through the eye of the needle..." Etc? Now, I may be wrong, but for some reason it sticks in my brain that the "eye of the needle" it's mentioning is actually a passage way in a wall that the poor or homeless would use. I'm sure that's not exactly it... But it's not a literal eye of the needle. Another monumental issue I have with the religious aspect of vigilante stalking is simply this - I, myself was born catholic, baptized Lutheran and later attended Christian reformed churches - one massive and monumental thing with Christianity is bearing witness. Testimony about how you yourself came to find god; maybe you are telling a friend just getting into spirituality about how your own faith was tested, etc. it does not matter - what does is you do so when asked to. When its pertinent. Shoving, figuratively, Christianity down anyone's throat is not going to work. Ever. It's going to end up causing that person to feel as if its something forced upon them. Yea. We all were forced into Sunday school. I know. Telling a adult as if they are a child what to believe, how, and then questioning their beliefs because they are not exactly your own... Accomplishes what? Particularly if you don't actually take the time to 1. Know that person 2. Know their beliefs and why 3. Allow them to discover spirituality - which is much more imperative than "religion-" on their own.

Finally - read the New Testament guys. And gals. Do it. It's about love, forgiveness, trials, tribulations. It's about a man who is rumored to have married (religious scholars, quite a few actually think this) a prostitute. Mary Magdalean. Now before any of you relate me to her (it has been done before, don't ask. SF is weird) I admit I sold myself when I was young. 18 and 19. To pay rent. It was awful. I asked forgiveness in my life - I disliked myself for it. Who are you to judge me, Christian one, when I've admitted it to The Lord? Now I'm just a ethical ****. You don't like that? How many of you were a part of the 70's? Ok. Great. Go look at your past and then preach about my present. Or am I wrong about cocaine, NYC swingers bathhouses, platform shoes and a open sexual attitude at the time? If so, man, you baby boomers need to go call the guys writing the history books and putting out movies. Otherwise, you streaked naked, smoked pot, did coke, listened to disco and **** rock and you all were as caught up with being 1. In your twenties and able to drink legally at 18 as possible 2. Drafted - terrible 3. Still burning your bras. Those were the times American society lived in. Simple. You did it. Who are you to inhibit anyone, even your own child, from doing it? Show you care, be there. Hope for the best. Pick up your kids if they fall. Do not tell them how lucky they are. If you did a decent job raising them, they will realize it someday.

In summary. 1. New Testament is of love, forgiveness and ways to live a happier better life. That's the core message. Please, if you call yourself a Christian, spend more than a hour at church with your bible every week. Don't be... A person who throws out scripture in order to belittle or throw religion in someone's face. Not your place. Teaching, asking is fine.

2. If you were born in the 1950 - you know you experimented. Not only with what there was out there to try, but also yourselves. Each other. If you did not. I'm sorry. Please get to know a more - ok - that was wrong. I think we should all adventure, explore, find out who we are and what we like for ourselves. I think we should all do things we shouldn't - face fears down - etc. There are those who have lived like saints. You're commendable to this hedonist, but on a personal level - I'm so glad I went out and lived. You did too! I know! I may miss out on what you may feel like you yourself did. Lets swap stories of kids and wild parties :-) we can all learn from one another when we stop hearing and begin listening.

Id get some medication if i was you.Sounds more like attacks of psychosis than this.

you sound like a doosh..... free drugs are always useful but its not psychosis its called being aware.... only way to get by is to be honest all the time and try not to get too pissed off

I accept that answer. I don't blame or think its a unreasonable one. Other than many see truth in my words. I'm not speaking for anyone but myself and my experience. Do what you will, say what you will.