I Am Bisexual With Little Experience Under My Belt

I am bisexual and I don't have much sexual experience at all with guys or girls so people are inclined to ask, "well how do know if you've never had sex?" But I have always been bisexual and I know that. I don't need to lose my virginity to prove that, you know? I've dated guys and I've been with girls (not many, considering I don't date much period) My mom thinks I'm allergic to people . :P one of my friends asked me "why do you like both? Are you being greedy? (jokingly of course) and thinking about it, I guess the reason I am attracted to guys and girls is that there are qualities of both that I am attracted to. Physically I am more attracted to women, and I love the sensuality of a woman. I love the emotional connection I have with women. Not to say that I can't get that from guys. The one thing I love in a guy is his masculinity, his power, it's sexy. Ialso love that guys are really easy to be around, most of my friends are guys. I also love the fact that guys are at heart really gentle spirited. These things coupled with the obvious actual personality and spirit of the PERSON is the reason I am attracted to guys and girls. Because in the end, that's what it comes down to. Do you enjoy being around that person? Do they make you feel good aboit yourself?
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2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

I totally agree with you. The foundation of any relationships I have are the people rather than the gender. I describe to my friends as preference similar to the way some of them like guys with dark hair and others like blonds. I see gender as a physical attribute and therefore although I am physically attracted to dark hair, I don't have a preference to this being on a man or a woman. And in the same way, this preference can be overridden if I meet an amazing person who has blond hair. Why do people see it as something so much more than it is?

thanks for your honesty. It's inspiring.