I'm an 18 year old girl who has only dated/ been intimate with boys. Lately I've found myself thinking about girls and what it would be like to be with one. I don't have anyone in my life to talk to about how I've been feeling because I feel that I'd want to be sure about my feelings before I share them with those people. I don't know what to think or how to know... I guess I'd have to experiment with a girl but I'm not sure how that would be possible. I'm so confused. ):
TomarkLove TomarkLove
22-25, F
6 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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hey i can relate to this. i have been bicurious for years but never felt i gotta come out cause i'm not sure there's nething to come out too. i'm still trying to figure out my feelings too but i'm thinking in such a situation a great thing to do is find the right person of the same sex to experement with. we probably owe it to ourselves to explore this, after all this is a part of ourselves & we gotta know ourselves. kinda wish i had the nerve to talk about this with 1 of my friends, i'm sure @ least some of my friends would be very supportive. i'm working on accepting i'm not 100% str8 but i still got a ways to go. feel free to message me, i think we could help each other alot.

If you don't express your feelings, you'll always have that "what if" spirit. You need to make sure that, if you experiment, the other girl is willing to work with you on all levels and intimately cares about your situation. I wouldn't go on to craigslist, but some dating sites might be useful. And, if all else fails, ask around.
I talk mainly as advice, since I have all my feelings bottled up for one person that I may never meet. Curiosity is something I know can be a pain, but the only way to have some resolve is to get out there.

Yeah, moment will arrive for you if you want it to. By writing her you've prepared yourself for that. Try, if you enjoy it great. If not put it behind you as you'll know. Regret nothing. Good luck.

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Hmm u can message me if u need some advice.