LuckyI'm not sure how I got so lucky to find such an amazing partner.
I am a rather butch lesbian.. And so is she. She's always been dom in a relationship, and until her I have always been sub. But now that we've met, and realized that I'm bigender (she's trans identified, but due to health reasons she is not transitioning).. so roles have kind of been switching some as I'm learning more about myself.
We had a 2 hour talk about this today.. about the things I feel and think. How it all affects me. And she told me to live how I wanted to. If I'm more comfortable living as a guy, then go for it. All that matters to her physically is that when she gets my clothes off, I'm all woman. Even if I do make some alterations to make living as male easier.
Honestly. How did I go from feeling completely rejected by society, my friends, and my family to suddenly having this amazing woman by my side who makes none of it matter, and who pushes me to explore who I am and learn what works best for me?