I'm not even sure if I am bigendered at all. I'm not sure exactly what I am. I was born a girl, right? But some days I think that I'm a guy. Im not crazy, like, I know that physically I'm still female. But in my head? I'm not even sure how to explain it. The closest thing I've found to explaining what I am is bigendered. I dont think that i want to actually change my appearance to more of a man look... But then again, some days I do.

So, I really only joined this to see if there is anyone else who feels like this?

Help? I've never been more confused in my life.

elmertheburrito elmertheburrito 18-21 2 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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I can SO identify with what you say and feel. Its great to know I am not alone! I am just starting to understand that we are NOT crazy - it was not a choice, we are who we are:) The hard part is going to be coming to terms with who we happen to be, finding and keeping a sense of balance, supporting each other and hopefully finding a sense of peace. Don't ask me how and if its possible - but I am going to give it a go. Be gentle with yourself:) I am happy to chat at anytime. WE CAN FIND OUR WAY.

I'm by far no expert on the subject, but i can say i've gone through the confusion myself as well. it's that 'somedays' part that is the worst for me.

and no, you're not crazy. if you need any questions answered, or just a sounding board, lemme know and i'll do my best for ya. that goes for all of you.