I'm not even sure if I am bigendered at all. I'm not sure exactly what I am. I was born a girl, right? But some days I think that I'm a guy. Im not crazy, like, I know that physically I'm still female. But in my head? I'm not even sure how to explain it. The closest thing I've found to explaining what I am is bigendered. I dont think that i want to actually change my appearance to more of a man look... But then again, some days I do.

So, I really only joined this to see if there is anyone else who feels like this?

Help? I've never been more confused in my life.

elmertheburrito elmertheburrito
2 Responses Sep 18, 2009

I can SO identify with what you say and feel. Its great to know I am not alone! I am just starting to understand that we are NOT crazy - it was not a choice, we are who we are:) The hard part is going to be coming to terms with who we happen to be, finding and keeping a sense of balance, supporting each other and hopefully finding a sense of peace. Don't ask me how and if its possible - but I am going to give it a go. Be gentle with yourself:) I am happy to chat at anytime. WE CAN FIND OUR WAY.

I'm by far no expert on the subject, but i can say i've gone through the confusion myself as well. it's that 'somedays' part that is the worst for me. <br />
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and no, you're not crazy. if you need any questions answered, or just a sounding board, lemme know and i'll do my best for ya. that goes for all of you.