I'm Confused About My Sexuality... I Don't Know If I'm Bisexual... I Think I Am?

Okay, so I'm a 15 year old girl. I've dated & kissed guys before, I usually have crushes on guys, and I'm at the age, where yes, I'll have plenty of sexual thoughts about guys. NOW... for girls, I've had crushes on girls, which I barely admit to myself, and I've never told to my friends.... but if I have a 'crush' on a girl... it's always different. If I want a guy (so if I like him) I'll have both an emotional and physical attraction to them, whereas with a girl, it's usually only an emotional level. So basically I feel like I'd date a girl, however I'm not SEXUALLY attracted to girls. So I'm not sure really what that means? Is it normal to strictly be emotionally attracted to someone? I'm just not sure as it's different than a crush on a guy. So... I guess my question is (based on what I've just said) Am I considered bisexual? Thanks so much in advance! <3 (And no hate?)
lora117 lora117
18-21, F
2 Responses Dec 2, 2012

All I can offer is how I understand my own sexuality. It changes. Some days I'm more attracted to women, other days men. I've never been in a relationship with a man before. They've always been play-things. But I have been in two relationships with women, one for five years and another for fifteen years. What I find works for me is not classifying my sexuality. My sexuality is too fluid to be nailed down. Why do you want to label yourself? It serves no purpose other than limiting you.

I know how you feel. I have a girlfriend but I feel emotionally attracted to a guy yet not sexually attracted to him.