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Well I can't say for sure what age I realized I was bi, and I've never really had the need for a "coming out" it was pretty obvious when I came home and said I had a girlfriend. Lol. I don't think I have ever really run into problems with it at all - my mother isn't really supportive but she accepts it I think. She is a very religious woman, as am I but I see where she comes from. I am not the type of person to need support though. I am fully capable of being happy on my own doing. :) Hmm, well I had my first girl crush when I was 12 or 13... my first girlfriend when I was 14 and my first girl-girl sexual experiance when I was 15. I've had a few girlfriends here and there, I LOVE women! But I love men too, and that's pretty much where it ends. I see my life and future with a husband and children, but that doesn't mean I've sworn off women. There is always ********** and such =P Lol. Personally I find women 100 percent more satisfying and attractive than men, haha. So yes, that is my story. =)

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Posted by robyn on Oct 24th, 2008 at 6:21PM

does that mean that when you are married to a man and have children, you intend to still be with other women? hmmmm....

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Posted by BlazzinBebe88 on Oct 24th, 2008 at 7:34PM

Ok well I was wondering why I get that response alot?
Being bisexual does not mean I necessarily sleep with women or men for that matter... It's part of it but not like that is all it's about... I am bisexual because I love women and men alike and are sexually attracted to them both - I mean - because I am with a man and love a man and spending my life with him doesn't mean how I feel or what I like disappears...

And of course, eventually I will be with another woman, AND my man. =)

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Posted by Rob22make3 on Oct 26th, 2008 at 4:43PM

And let's face it - BlazzinBebe88's man isn't going to put up much of a fight... ; )

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Posted by BlazzinBebe88 on Oct 26th, 2008 at 5:28PM

Lol nope!

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Posted by minnie22mouse on Nov 16th, 2008 at 11:10PM

That's cool. Sometimes I wonder if I might be a little bisexual b/c I look at some girls and I think they are really hot. Or sometimes I might get a little girl crush. But then I just tell myself, nah. Idk. But if anything, I'm more straight then bi. pretty sure.

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Posted by wakeupkaren on Nov 16th, 2008 at 11:19PM

well, no one is 100% straight. as no one is 100% gay. on a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being straight and 10 being gay, most people i believe would fall in the 2.5 to 8 category i think. girls get girl crushes and wouldn't consider themselves bi or gay necessarily, and guys (though few admit it) get guy crushes too. so maybe you fall in at like a 3, minnie?

blazzin, proud of ya for not needing someone elses support and just doing your own thing. so few are that strong on their own.

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Posted by BrandisPet on Nov 17th, 2008 at 12:59AM

you could have been writing about me, the ages of attractions begining and first experiences. i was never one to seek approval from others either, if someone didnt like the way i was, then it was their problem. i also think women are far sexier than men but am not ruling men out of my life.

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Posted by BlazzinBebe88 on Nov 17th, 2008 at 5:52AM

Thanks Minnie and Karen:)

Brandi.. I get what you are saying.. I am wayyyy more attracted to females - I mean, we have gorgeous bodies, gorgeous everything.. I love verrrry feminine women.. long hair, thin waist, big hips, big butt, medium sized breasts... make me feel so weak thinking about a incriminatingly sexy woman!!! But I could never live without a man! LOL.. =)

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Posted by MosaicManX2 on Jul 5th, 2009 at 2:16PM

Amen, women are far sexier. Ironically my concern in having a bi sexual g/f was always of getting replaced.

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Posted by jp5040 on Jul 5th, 2009 at 2:54PM

i am going to say this. I used to think exactly like you. It's biological - our vision of having kids. Be careful about your boyfriend/husband. It is really important to show him the truth about yourself. You will age and change - I found as i got older the need to be with men increased. It didn't stay down with monogamy. It had to express. I think my partner (if I find one) now will have to accept I can't be monogamous. I won't be cruel and in your face about it, nor go out looking for closet sex, but I won't be simple. It's complicated by the sexuality.

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