Isn't the correct spelling "celibate"? Anyway-I was 41 when I lost my virginity. I believe sex is a human need, but I also believe that it should be "special"-meaning someone you have a connection with, someone you're involved with. I don't believe in that **** of saving it until marriage; I believe marriage is becoming obsolete. After just having gotten out of a relationship with a man-celibacy is the right thing. Sex is a human need, but sex can also twist and mess things up.