Wanting To Be A Virgin For LifeI'm a guy who loves and is really into things like classical and jazz music as well as things like reading, sports and writing poetry. So I have a lot of interests that take my time. I am currently a 20 year-old male college student. Usually the guys I hang around just want sex, sex, and more sex. But that is not me at all. I don't ever want to lose my virginity, which probably sounds weird to people since I am a male. So let me explain who I am.
I'm a virgin in every sense of the word. I have not kissed anyone (not really wanting to) or even hugged anyone except my family members and a few friends. I've never had a girlfriend (obviously) and I'm not really looking to have one because I don't care to have a romantic relationship. I would much rather just be friends with someone. I would rather be friends than have a girlfriend or wife because friendship is usually a non-sexual thing, while in dating, there is an expectation of sex or deep passion, which is something I don't want at all. That doesn't say that I wouldn't want a relationship at all. I would only want one that is completely platonic/non-sexual. I've already told my parents about my plans for a sexless future, and they are a little bit confused about it. I think there are okay with it for now because they think it is some phase I'm just going through. But when I say that I never want to have sex, they seem to get upset because I think.they had plans of me marrying and having babies.
As for what inspires me, I would have to say that there are three main things. The first would be career. I am really career-focused and want to have a great work life and do the many things I love, like music and poetry, at the same time. I think that inspires me first. The second is my faith. I am a Christian (non-denominational) and I am pretty religious. But it doesn't inspire my decision as much as my career does. And the third and final one is just apathy. I don't care to have a relationship because I am happy with myself and with my friendships. And I guess I think that I would much rather be a good friend rather than be a good lover/sex partner. This one inspires me quite a bit, to be honest.
And that's really all I have to say. When I say this to some people, they go insane and think I am unnatural, but I think that I am okay. I just feel as if I would be just fine if I was a virgin forever. But what do you think? Do you think I am unnatural?
tyc113 18-21 11 Responses 17 Jan 8, 2011