Celibate by circumstance
I am 41 and I lost the only man I ever truly loved in 1988 when my parents forced me to abort our only child. I did have other boyfriends and I even married one of them, however it just wasn't the same. I eventually got divorced. I don't have children and won't (I have had a hysterectomy). I have not had any physical contact whatsoever with men since my ex-husband in May 2005. Sometimes it is easy and sometimes it is not, but overall I am much happier. I have a nice church fellowship, fulfilling career, I have travelled, studied and I have a lovely little home so I am learning to be content with that.