Friendship For Now

I'm not or have not had sex in little over 2 yrs. that is since my husband died, he and I shared a wonderful sex life we have 6 kids all grown and they envied us. both in high gear pretty much always... since he's gone , I 'm so not ready for a new relationship, now I'm saying I'm not having sex with anyone, if you get my drift, I'm still alive!!!! I miss having someone to laugh with, to go to dinner with, movies, shopping all those wonderful things I shared with my love. I craved him not just sex, now I wish I could find someone the be good friend with and maybe even travel with..... I need a Gay male friend. I don't know what is in store for me and I'm not saying never but for now it's all I would have to offer, I'm one of those people who have to have strong feelings or love for someone to make love, as far as sex, trust me I'm more than capable of handling my needs.
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56-60, F
2 Responses Jun 29, 2007

There is nothing wrong with being celibate. I have had periods in my life where I did not have sex for a year or so. Just busy with life and very selective of my potential mates. <br />
The thing to be careful of is getting into a relationship where there is mismatched needs. So whatever you do, be totally honest that you are not into sex. You may get lucky and find someone like you.

Thanks Angel, Haven't found my gay friend, but since I had written this story, I have awaken from my long sleep and I feel ready to move on and find happiness again, I'm filled with hope for the future.