Change For The Better

I have been celibate for 15 months now, and frankly it has been a change for the better.

I feel better for it, and have a clearer headspace as a result.

I think I will be a better man when this changes but I'm not in any hurry

changedman changedman
46-50, M
6 Responses Jan 6, 2010 are a patient try to be positive even in the misery or may be like you say you are okay with it least for the moment. All the best !

Good luck to you; I don't know how I could go back to being celibate. I was for nearly 2 years and it, along with some other issues, completely shut me down. It took me nearly 10 years to find my sexual self again and it came back like a flood. I couldn't control it and it still is very hard to me to contain. Luckily I haven't been in any situations that could have been harmful (physically), but it came very close. I wish you the best and hope your decision results in nothing but positive things for you.

TChic,<br />
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You wont have forgotten, dont be worried about that. I think the battle is to make it different, between the ears different. <br />
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After a while you dont miss sex, but inevitably it will come into our lives agin, and be another sensation altogether. Thats what I believe anyway.

Celibate for 2 months...not boy choice. LOL. Well, semi-by choice. I worry when I start up again I will have forgotten all my 'skills'. ;0

i've been celibate myself for qiute a while and in most ways it's been a good thing.

Nothing wrong with it. You rearranged your priorities and it was for the better. Wish more people had common or should I say uncommon sense like you. A toast to you and you are the better Man and a Real One.