It's Been A Long Time Coming
For quite awhile, I honestly avoided joining this group and all for reasons unexplainable to even myself. I didn't want to be mean by not accepting others as my friend but to be honest a lot has changed around EP and some of it hasn't. There are still some kind-hearted people here but most of the others to be honest are perverts and for one reason or another, they want to be my friend. I may have said that "I Accept Perverts Into My Circle" but as I was about to write and still will write in the group, Respect Goes A Long Way and I expect respect despite what their little sexual fantasies or desires are, I don't want to be inflicted or approached with those sexual exploits. As most of my experiences say, I'm happily married, I'm in love with my husband, and some of my experiences are sexually explicit but they aren't for or refer to anyone here on this site. Those are there for my own purpose and for what I like to do with the one man in my life my husband.
So, as far as that is and has been said, I'd like to keep it that way so as of today, I will be deleting the friends who haven't attempted to make conversations with me for whatever reason it may be or who have only joined my circle for "online sexual gain or cyber sex." Or who haven't made an attempt to know me personally. I'm EP Old School and I love the way things used to be where people used to be caring, kind, and loving to one another and I've only been here three years. You can re-befriend me if you'd like but as of now, I'll have people that I connected with through stories, comments, conversations through Private Messages and the sort but I have hundreds of "fans" and most haven't tried to get to know me.
Basically, I'll be making these changes today, tomorrow and all this week. I didn't want to join this group because I didn't think I needed to downsize but I don't want to be like a MySpacer who has hundreds of friends just to have. So, from now on unless you take a genuine and common interest in me and what I do on this site do not try to befriend me. So, from now on, if you want to become my friend send me a Private Message or write on my Whiteboard why you want to be friends. If not, don't bother me or my circle.
I know some of this is harsh and doesn't sound like me but from this day forward, I want a group of true friends in my circle. People that genuinely care about me, my well-being and all that I am. So, please respect my wishes as I will respect yours.