Oh God , It's True . . . .
I'm still getting over a ten year relationship involving our children and being married twice to her . It never worked out but we kept trying . All we accomplished was hurting each other and confusing the kids . I can only hope that we have finally ended it at last and the vicious circles are forever broken and that our children are still young enough to not be overly affected by our inability to detatch properly . I'm reading a book about " the power of detachment " that has opened my eyes as to how destructive codependance can be and how disruptive it has been in my life and all those I love and who love me . While I still care for Michelle , I've learned that we have to go our own ways , I've backed out , and let God work his will .