I have a friendship with this fun, good looking, gay man -- but I realized one of the attractions to him is feelings from my past -- I thought at first it was just to people who got each other, but I have realized that its more than that; he knows what buttons to push and I have responded -- I am aware which is a huge thing, but I am hurting ... I just need support to get over this "relapse" to old behaviors!

ayuda ayuda
2 Responses Aug 28, 2008

I know what you mean by being drawn to old behaviors. I"m in the same boat. Trying to forget all about him and find other interests...

Remember that you're worth it By Ayuda. I'm going through the same thing. Take it day by day. Everyday that you keep away from him is a sucessfulful day.