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Never change who and how you are for someone. Not even if they make you change. Oftentimes you end up changing that one magical trait that led you to fall in love in the first place. I always show my worst side to people. If they can deal with that, they can deal with me at my best.
kronovide kronovide 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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mostly id say thats true but at the same time if you get in a relationship you really want to be in it takes both persons to kinda change or more like adapt differant things about themselves to intertwine their lives in order for that relationship to work at all so if you really care or love that person its not totally changing for someone but joining your lives together to make it work cause its a need inside you to do this not a forced thing you feel wronged or bad about but a natural instinct thats a good thing so if neither person opens up to adap to each other in that way then that relationship is allready set to fail

mostly id say thats true but at the same time if you get in a relationship you really want to be in it takes both persons to kinda change or more like adapt differant things about themselves to intertwine their lives in order for that relationship to work at all so if you really care or love that person its not totally changing for someone but joining your lives together to make it work cause its a need inside you to do this not a forced thing you feel wronged or bad about but a natural instinct thats a good thing so if neither person opens up to adap to each other in that way then that relationship is allready set to fail

agreed....have to look at someone exactly the way they are...have no expectations...<br />
seems like it gives you a lvl of peace and honesty in a relationship...requires alot of maturity tho at the same time. LOL Which means i've gone thru alot of them. ;)

I generally agree. The only exception is that you should try to improve on "the worst" about yourself. Dont hate it, reject, or ignore it, but also dont expect others to like it either.