The Truth Hurts

Well I came out to my mom a couple of my cusens and friends in April. Everyone it seems to be cool with everyone but my mom. She sometimes call me names like "You dumb lesbo". And the only thing I can do is go in my room and cry. I try to ignore it but when I do it seems to get worse. And even though my cusens know I'm a lesbian I can't tell them what my mom says.
mebeingme14 mebeingme14
13-15, F
2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

Hey, you're in a tough situation. You're going through a lot and I respect you for that. Honestly I feel that you should talk to your Mom yourself. If she's not going to listen to others then why not talk to her yourself? Talk to her alone. Tell her how you feel about how she's treating you. Tell her how you're her daughter and nothing has changed. You're still the same girl she know and live with. Tell her how she's treating you differently then everyone else and how it hurts. That all you do is go to your room and cry. Tell her how you feel it's not right because she's your Mother and when you look up to anyone it's her. For her to bring you down like that isn't right at all. Ask her why she's treating you like that. Tell her that you love her and she should love you too. Nothing should change. I feel the reason why she's treating you like that is because a lot of Parents often feel that they have failed as a parent or something went wrong. I'm not saying anything went wrong with you because absolutely nothing went wrong with you. She needs to know how you feel and know that her words hurt deep especially since they're coming from your Mother. She needs to stop and accept you for who you are. I accept you for who you are. I hope things work out. Good Luck :)

I try to but all she does is curses me out & thank you

Aweee! I'm sorry and you're welcome. I wish I could talk to your Mother for you. Damn, I'm sorry.

Its okay :)

I would not dare to come out to Papa Mama yet, not while i live in their house. I do not know when i be able to tell them. So i think you are very brave and i am sorry your mama react like this.