I Am Ms. Confident

Actually, everybody is sensitive ... especially when the person is weak and lonely ...



In your case, i think you are afraid of being unaccepted in the society. As a result, you built up self-defense by creating an invisible wall to separate yourself from others. You dont look after yourself as you feel it's useless to do like that bcz noone is going to observe your changes. You are living in the world of depression and sensitivity.



You feel yourself are unimportant among friends and family... which creates depression inside your heart...



As for me, others think i'm perfect.. I have perfect life; money, beauty, intelligence, boyfriend, family, etc.

But i'm actually broken inside...



I have everything people considered "perfection"

but i'm contrast to that...



I'm lonely and always console myself... Many times i struggle to find a good friend but i hardly find that one as people wear mask to face each other.. Nobody reveals what he/she really are ...



I have been fooled many times in my life so now i have recognized the most important person in my life whom will never betray me is "myself"...



To be loved, you must love yourself ... Value yourself ...

Beautify and Purify yourself both physically and mentally...



Creat one beautiful day and call it "my beautiful day"

List out all your favorites; food, music, hobby, sport, etc.



List out your goal;

what do you want to achieve in this life ..

what kind of person who you want to be ..

how is your reflection in the mirror...

how do you feel about yourself..





Mark my words,

"Nobody is perfect"



There's no "perfection" in this world ...

But there's "satisfaction" in our soul...



Satisfy your soul .. Purify it ..



We have to "live" not just "exist" ...



Stay Strong !!



You are not alone ...

I dont look after myself because of the jelousy that exists etc

I am too afraid to wear make up etc, dont brush my hair etc I have a fear of being called vain because I am very very far from vanity.

I am too sensitive. Advice?

You mean frame of confident?



Just be yourself.. believe in your capability.. be optimistic and think positive.. Everything is gonna be all right..



I have many friends who either devalue themself.. or look down at themself.. which make them become loser and meaningless in the society that theory of Social Darwinism plays significant role; survival of the fittest and struggle for survival.. If you are weak, you will be eliminated from social depression...

I am quite envious of you. Though personally, all my life I was like a shadow; but I must say I have gotten better. May I ask how do you do stay in that frame of mind?