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I Am Confused About Many Things

Make Up Your Mind

By: destry
Written on April 26th, 2010
By: destry
Age: 46-50
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19 responses
  • xxnsnxx

    Hope this Beautiful Angel is having better days.

    Feb 21
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  • lovetodie

    Life

    Apr 28, 2010
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  • destry

    Thanks, LV

    Apr 28, 2010
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  • LordVoldemort

    Aw!



    I am sorry that someone has confused you,



    I hope things work out the way you want them

    Apr 28, 2010
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  • destry

    thanks frito...everyone is so right. I wish it was easy to do...

    Apr 27, 2010
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  • frito414

    Hi Des, the "there and not there" feeling really does suck...I'm with so many of your friends here that maybe it's time to cut this person/people free...unless it's possible they may be going through something and the silent treatment isn't meant for you but just their way of trying to cope. ..but then you would probably know that. If it's a game...good riddance! :)

    Apr 27, 2010
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  • destry

    well....exactly scoobs. good way to view it.

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • Scoobs57

    There really are too many other fish in this EP sea plenty willing to talk and have some fun. No need to have more than a casual relationship with someone who isn't interested in anything but games.

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • destry

    thanks MM :)

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • MusicMouse

    I AGREE destry, the "silent treatment" is a very cruel "mind Game" played to manipulate someones feelings/emotions or be ''apathetic'', and I've had that played on me many times in my life! Like... "If they don't get your way, give him/her the cold glares, cold shoulder, ignore him/her....make them sweat it out... squirm...suffer!! It is extremely hurtful and I'm very sorry to hear thats happening to you. Nothing works in 'all' the different situations, but many years ago I confronted that type of behavior with the same treatment by telling her about how cruel it was and then giving her the 'cold shoulder' for a couple weeks to show her how it felt. I think it woke her up, we had a long talk about it afterwords, and it never happened again. Turn-about is fair play, but it doesn't always work. ;~))

    May 1, 2010
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  • destry

    I love my wise friends. That is why I bother to write stories like this..

    :)

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • Orangetas

    NO !! NO!! NO!!!



    Ofcourse I have no idea what this is about except that someone has you on a string.



    Please cut it !!!!!!!!!!!!



    ( not saying I have always been quick to do that but a healthy relationship feels wonderful - there are no games)

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • destry

    Thanks, Sophie :)



    Interesting idea, owlie...

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • wiseowl

    Walk away..If someone doesn't want to use their words..hey, they will when they get bored with their own behavior. Just the way little kids do.

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • Sophie1610

    God, I'm so sorry.....I know what it can do and how it can make you feel...just hate the silent treatment, there's nothing worse than that!.... I really hope things will change for the better for you!!! *hugs*

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • destry

    I feel like I don't know what to say anymore, lest I get the silent thing. Whatever.

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • Sophie1610

    Asolutly right Destry, it really sucks...that's why I'm done with wondering!...not a great feeling huh!

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • Fallflower

    Grrr I hate that.

    Apr 26, 2010
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  • destry

    yeah.... geez *sigh*

    Apr 26, 2010
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